This thread is getting under my skin. Trying to work through why that is...
1. I think part of the reason people come to this forum is that we tend to discuss all possibilities in a situation. That's pretty rare in any group, and I wouldn't want it to change.
2. Discussing whether something is feasible or not is not the same as approving of it.
3. I tend to have strong opinions about these issues, too. When we personally disapprove of an option that someone is suggesting, what should we do? Is that immediately a separate discussion, one for the political forum? Or should we leave it in the same thread?
slsdly wrote:It shouldn't matter whether others are abusing the system or not. That is the kind of justification a child gives when they do something they know is wrong ("But Bobby did it too!") but wanted to do anyways. It wasn't a good excuse back then, and it isn't any better now.
I am sick and tired of listening (in life in general) to talk about "rights." I never hear anyone talk about our collective duties, our responsibilities
In Myers-Briggs lingo, this is the difference between Introverted Feeling (values and moral judgments that are generated by and applicable only to the individual), and Extroverted Feeling (values and moral judgments that are applicable to all).
There is a rebellion in society right now against the idea that there is anything absolute. Facts are not really facts if I don't agree with them (read: to hell with Extraverted Thinking), and ethical norms that I haven't personally agreed to don't apply to me (to hell with Extraverted Feeling, too). It's probably backlash against a society that was too stifling for most for too long, but the pendulum has swung too far the other direction now, I think. Now the idea that a society should have bedrocks of any sort is being rejected. It causes problems discussing issues like climate change when we can't agree on the definition of the words involved. It causes problems in social interactions when there's no agreed-upon "right thing" anymore, as you suggest here. No standards of any kind = a social and intellectual free-for-all.