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@BGI - Usually, I just use comments as an excuse to make general statements. Don't take it too personally :)
Mastery was not the term I was looking for. Competence is a better term. The goal of ERE is not mastery, it is competence. This competence is somewhat externally imposed, but it's imposed by reality. You can be internally motivated but not to the detriment of reality.
Consider a stone-age person. This person must have certain competences in order to live, like how to hunt, how to butcher, which fruits are edible, which are poisonous, which are healing, how to start a fire, how to build a hut, how to fight, how to sing and dance, how to make clothes, how to walk and run,... A stone-ager can be internally motivated, but is also externally compelled to survive. We're no different.
By no means do all these need to be mastered. Only competence is required.
Now insert our modern economic/educational system into the stone age world. So we have a person who spends the first 20 years of his life learning not all of those skills but rather training to do just one of those skills full time leaving little for everything else, both in time and skill. The purpose is that practicing this one skill will earn money (or sea shells) and this can be used to pay for everything else. Suppose this person is a healer but doesn't wanna anymore.
The healer can pursue two different strategies
1) Use his healer function to accumulate a tremendous amount of seashells. Increase the speed of accumulation by eating less, wearing less clothes, ...
This is the savings/sacrifice method.
2) Begin to develop the other competences necessary for his world. This will reduce his need for sea shells and over time allow him to spend less time healing. The sea shell accumulation will then be incidental.
Comparative advantage is often brought up as the reason why the first strategy is better. I'll bring of the law of diminishing returns, why the second method is better [for most people].
Lets grade competence
-2: Totally useless. Knows nothing. Must hire a certified professional to do work. Certification is necessary because I don't know how to evaluate the work. Because of this I must pay a lot of money.

-1: Informed customer. Knows how to evaluate, but not how to do. Can hire an amateur or an apprentice because skill can be evaluated. Can say no to unnecessary professional procedures. This costs less.

0: Self-sufficient. Can do an okay job. Does not need to hire. Free.

+1: Dilettante. Can do a better than okay job. Informed customers will hire as will the self-sufficient when they want a better job. Can also work as a prepper for professionals to refine. Can sell stuff on etsy. Side-income. Gets paid a little money.

+2: Professional. Works full time. Is paid a lot.
In general, people are now brought up to be a +2 in a single field and be a -2 in everything else. Therefore, strategy 1 is a natural way out of work. They'll sacrifice, accumulate money, and then hand that money over to investments, something which they also know little about.
The problem with specialization is that while you as a professional get paid a lot for +2, you'll also be overpaying other professionals a lot for -2. E.g. paying $15 to fix a flat tire; something that with reasonable practice takes 10 minutes. That's $90/hour. Getting your tax return done professionally can easily be upwards of $200/hour. Do you make that much?
The ERE strategy is more like strategy 2. Develop 20th century life skills instead of stone age skills. But prioritize life-skills rather than random "passions". Cooking is a life-skill. RC planes or violin playing is not, really. Take all those neglected skills to level -1 if you hate them, 0 if they're okay. +1 if you have an interest. +2 if you're passionate about them.
Then you pay others only to compensate for personal incompetence when such competence is not worthwhile. (This is where the law of diminishing returns enter.) For example, you pay the +2 bike mechanic to thread the headset for you. You pay the +1 hobbyist change the shifter cables and regrease the hub bearings. You adjust the brake cables and the saddle yourself. Strategy 1 would be to pay +2 prices for all of these.
I agree that mastery pursuits are asynchronous. However, competence pursuits are not. They are, in fact, rather synergetic. Competence in one field will make it much easier to gain competence in similar fields. Building on that will make every new addition easier and easier.
In conclusion, if your competences look like this (+2,-2,-2,-2, ...., -2) and most people have be raised this way, I think there's a tendency to focus on FI and sacrifice as a way of speeding up FI. Once FI, your competences will still look like (+2,-2,-2,.......-2) and so if done this way you still worry about your investments.
However, with ERE your competences will look like this (+2,+1,+1,+1,0,0,0,0,0,0,0,0,-1,-1,-1), the whole idea of FI and saving a lot of money becomes almost irrelevant because you can now make money almost at will and ironically you don't really need [much of] it.
In my opinion, perhaps due to my INTJ competence-striving temperament, I find strategy 2 to be much more fun than strategy 1. Strategy 1 would almost feel like a prison sentence counting down the days until the release date of the crossover point is reached. And then what ...


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Post by spoonman »

I've been meaning to post a reply, but I've been caught up with a bunch of stuff.
I think that you are articulating a thought that I think many of us have had a some point or another. Although I get a kick out of investing and seeing my passive income grow each month, I've tried to picture myself doing that for the rest of my life and can't bring myself to like that scenario. When the time comes, I will simply stop making contributions to my portfolio and live on what I have. I do think it's a good idea to have non-zero savings rate even after reaching FI, nowhere near the rate in the accumulation stage but maybe just 5% of income. I may pursue side jobs for fun as well.
I think you've identified a nice way to increase your free time right now that would not significantly impact your FI date. The whole point is to configure your life in a way that makes you happy, and it sounds like you have done most of that reconfiguration already.


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@spoonman:



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=). We should animate it so they do an exploding fist pump.


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#027 21/04/2013 The Upward Spiral of Inspiration
It is my belief that the same type of 'Keeping up with the Jonses' mindset that drives us into a downward spiral of consumerism and debt, and ultimately losing ourselves and identity, can be applied in the opposite way.
What if I consumed inspiration the same way a consumer consumes materials/goods?
The source of the upward spiral therefore is 'inspirationalism'. Keeping up the with 'insprirational Jones', that drives us to be better people and ultimately, finding our optimal selves and our identity.
This post talks about the sources and consumption of inspiration in my journey towards early retirement and the how it has changed my mindset and spirit for the better.
Before
Before I began to pursue financial independence and early retirement, inspiration came to me only in a passive way. It would usually happen by accident, ie in a serendipidous way.
Watching an inspiring film of redemption (i.e. Les Miserables, Shawshank Redemption, etc) or accidentaly reading an inspirational story (ie. transformative weight loss, overcoming abuse, poverty, tragedy to flourish, etc).
The proportion of inspiration that I fed on/ingested in relation to the sea of other types of information available to us (i.e. sensationalistic, statistic, consumeristic, hedonistic,tempationistic -if thats a word, etc) was a very small fraction of the whole.
But if one accepts that inspiration is a healthy type of brain food, ie. a super food like kale, blueberries, etc. wouldn't it make sense to consume inspiration on a daily basis and make it an integral part of our regular diet?
After
The shift into 'inspirationalism' at first happened mostly serendipitously as I pursued financial independence and early retirement.
The part that wasn't serendipitous was letting go off my old environment of people living their lives accepting status quo even though they wanted more and had incredible potentials. Almost like we had all given up our passions and we accepted that we were less than what we thought we were. For the most part, I was no different.
The further I pursued my early retirement, the more inspiration I was accidentally consuming as my attention and focus shifted to people who lived or are living outlier, passionate and inspirational lives.
Seeking Inspiration
The consumption of inspiration moved from serendipidous(passive), to neutral, to actively seeking, probably within the last six months.
Nowadays, amongst the sea of information 'types' that I ingest, stories of inspiration and transformation now take up a disproportionately large portion of the whole. By choice. I look for it. I seek it.
Meditation also makes it a lot easier to shape my thoughts, and also stop/tame unwanted thoughts. It acts as a filter.
I'm brain washing myself with inspirational stories to make me a better person.
In the young, I find inspiration in the ones who have thrown caution to the wind and are living to their own rules and convictions. Be it moving and living in far away places, or even something as simple as rejecting the onslaught of social media (facebook, twitter, etc) that is increasingly telling them that their online persona is more important than their real one.
In the middle aged and newly divorced mothers with kids, I find inspiration in how they are taking responsibility and refusing to be a victim to their circumstance. Turing debt into surplus, helplessness into hopefulness. Same applies to those from abused, or broken families, or being raised in poverty.
All of these above stories are from members here and on the MMM board, and its been a great blessing and inspiration to read their stories.
I truly have no excuses, and there is no reason that I should not be in constant gratitude for my health, family and all that I have. Reading their messages helped me a lot, and they all inspire me to me better.
The book I am reading now is called:
"What Should I Do With the Rest of My Life?: True Stories of Finding Success, Passion, and New Meaning in the Second Half of Life"

by Bruce Frankel.
It was a book that I just picked up off a shelf, and couldn't put down.
The book is a series of stories of men and women in their golden years (ie. 60s,70s,80s,90s) who are quite literally, kicking ass. If you aren't living your life, their stories can quite literally put you to shame.
Their best years of their lives are what we in the back of our minds dismiss to be the worst.
If you are an inspiration junkie, like me, I would recommend this book.


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Post by spoonman »

I am an inspiration junkie myself, constantly mining the blogosphere for awesome stories. Your story is specially inspirational, MBGI.
The ones that I enjoy the most are stories where the person completely reconfigures their lives, achieve financial independence or otherwise give the finger to the 9-5, and then share their experiences of what it’s like on the other side.
I believe that our addiction to inspirational stories will continue to be sustained by a growing population of people (specially in these forums) that achieve their dreams, namely reaching FI.


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#028 08/05/2013 The ERE Silver Bullet 'AfterMath'
My obsession/desire/focus/purpose and all encompassing identity that the pursuit of early retirement gave me over the last year and a half is not as strong as it was before.
It is still there, it just doesn't feel as powerful of a drive, or the defining part of my identity anymore.
This largely has to do with recently becoming financially independent.
There was a huge un-intended release of goal driven related dopamine levels and for now I feel somewhat depleted of those energies directed towards the early retirement goal. (Some energies have been diverted elsewhere which i will mention most likely in my next post).
Although I am not retired and there is still more to be done, I feel like I have gained 'enough' control and freedom of my life that I desired.
On the positive, this feeling of control and freedom has brought about a sense of peace and strength.
On the negative, I now feel an incredible personal responsibility to myself to use this control and freedom.
For lack of a better word, I feel a certain anxiety.
Maybe it is not negative at all actually, perhaps this anxiety is a good thing. It is what will propel me forward.
For now, this anxiety has overpowered the minutiae of the early retirement goal, even though I am not even there yet.
Early retirement is still forecasted to be 2 to 3 years away (I have decided to do the 20/50/50 in 2014 and onwards). More of my energies now are now dealing with this healthy 'anxiety'.
So, this post is just a wrap up the outcome of the move/silver bullet.
The Aftermath-math of FI
The final step of my move/transition was getting my previous condo rent-ready and finding a tenant. After having spent so much energy renovating and moving, it felt like another five miles added onto a marathon. I was running on near empty.
I was very fortunate to find a tenant for April which meant I only had to carry the two properties for one month (February).
It happened very fast. Within less than a week of placing an ad on Kijiji, the lease was signed, backgrounds checks were done, and a received a very healthy deposit (first three months and last).
My tenants are a very nice Australian couple in their late 20s. (I love Australians. Both for their accents and their outlook of life. They seem to always be some of the best people you meet while traveling.)
When they moved in, I just sort of collapsed, again, similar to when you finish a marathon. The ERE Silver Bullet was a process that started in November, and it was what prompted me to start my journal.
So when it was 'done', I felt too depleted to even look at numbers.
I took some time gathering myself and taking a breath before figuring things out.
I was back-logged three months of book keeping/data entry (February,March and April).
In May, I finally got around to measuring the 'afer-math' of the 'ERE Silver Bullet' transition.
Turning my biggest liability, i.e my residence/condo, which also happened to lock in most of my savings , into a passive income producer and at the same time decreasing my fixed living expenses, made me financially independent starting in April. It changed my situation literally overnight.
My living expense (ie. shelter) is effectively $290 a month. For a property centrally and safely located in a major urban city, this is a bargain for me.
The $290 is inclusive of property tax, utilities and building fees. It also includes TV cable which i never watched before. Sadly I have begun watching more TV now, but mostly just sports(basketball, baseball, hockey), 60 minutes and ofcourse my favourite, Mantracker.
On the high level, the silver bullet decreased my annual Shelter/Living expenses by $4,400, and increased my passive income by $8,100, The combined annual difference is $12,500.
My pre-ERE annual expenses back in 2011 were $31,000, My first year of ERE planning my annual expenses, 2012 were $25,000.
My annual expenses are now at $20,000 and my annual passive income is now at $22,500.
My annual expenses still have a ton of gravy build in, which can be pared down in the future. My un-necessary luxury annual car expense is approximately $3000, and travel is $5000. So taking those away, my annual expenses are closer to $12,000.
The Aftermath-life of FI
Most of the sense of empowerment, freedom and control I now feel is not just from the financial independence, but knowing that my residence, where I live is paid off and extremely easy to carry.
My life is sustainable on minimum wage.
It really doesn't feel like I 'sacrificed' anything. It only feels like I am living more genuinely to what is important to me, ie. living a life where the shoe fits.
Living this life and creating such surplus feels like I am having my cake and eating it too.
In the analogy of consumerism, it feels like a got a brand new full featured life for 50% off the sticker price.
A huge part of the value added life has to do with living so close to the park, which has become my 'backyard'. I frequent it often. I jog, I walk, I lounge, and read in the park. I am developing for myself a circuit workout now since I found chinup bars in the park. I am getting healthy doses of vitamin D, exposure to nature, and 'relatively' fresh city air.
But as I mentioned at the start of my post, all the abundances that are now in my life has produced a general anxiety. An anxiety to do something more, to be something more.
This anxiety makes me feel like my new life is not designed for the constructs of a traditional life, or my past, or my status quo. Many many things of my existence now feel obsolete.
It feels like inserting a new character in a re-run episode of a sitcom, and calling it a new episode.
What makes me tick is entirely different than everything around me.
I hope to share these thoughts in my coming posts.


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Post by spoonman »

“...This largely has to do with recently becoming financially independent.” Woot!
Perhaps your anxiety is a manifestation of what MMM called the “Nagging Voices of Success”.
You are kicking ass! Reading about your journey always gives me a jolt of energy. I just can’t way to get the same feeling of freedom and control.
Looking forward to your future posts.


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Now you're rich! (FI)
Congratulations


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Post by J_ »

It looks a little like the feelings which M741 expressed when he realised that FI was suddenly reached. Is it as if you are there staring a blanc canvas and nobody is steering your brush: What the hell do I want to paint? And: Do I want to paint?

Anyway, as usual you make me curious about your next entry!


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Hi MBGI, I wanted you to know that I read through your journal earlier this week and enjoyed it and connected with it strongly. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings so openly for us to benefit from. I'm not FI but I can completely relate to this:
"like my new life is not designed for the constructs of a traditional life, or my past, or my status quo. Many many things of my existence now feel obsolete.
It feels like inserting a new character in a re-run episode of a sitcom, and calling it a new episode.
What makes me tick is entirely different than everything around me."
This is what has been making me feel so lonely since I started ERE and the inevitable changes in me occurred, though I've always felt a portion of this at some level. Though I feel as you do, that a romantic relationship and/or children is no longer "required" or part of some a priori formula for happiness and fulfillment, I still find myself yearning for sharing in experiences with people I can relate to and be genuine and open with. How do you deal with these things?


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@spoonman:
You've got a great positive energy and attitude with an enthusiasm that's definitely gonna take you to where you want to be. I also get a boost from your encouragement.
@C40:
Thank you my brother, from another mother!
@_J:
Most definitely the painting has begun! ;)
@zarathustra:

Thanks so much for letting me know my thoughts connect with yours.
I don't know what has been more beneficial for me, the catharsis of writing for my own sake and sanity, or the connection and support/empowerment from others it has given me.
Both have been a huge blessing in ways that is difficult to describe and i'm greatful to everyone who has replied in my journal.
I do make it a point to read everyone's own journal who I connect with or replies.
I admire your path and tremendous conviction. It just seems like nothing is gonna get in your way, and this definitely comes through in your writing.
You are unstoppable.
So i find it even more admirable that you have left yourself vulnerable and open by revealing your loneliness despite your unstoppable nature. Too often we all only put our best foot forward and choose to define ourselves by this foot, rather than the other.
So..
In regards to companionship and loneliness:
The love/companionship i seek borders on irrational.
In my heart it has become so idealized, a fantasy that is more utopia than reality.
On a very high and simplistic level what i want is 1+1=4. The whole being great than the sum of the parts. It seems so simple but i've yet to find it.
My heart cannot compromise on how it defines 'love'. It's all or nothing.
While i find i cannot change the definition of what my heart wants, i feel i can change how much I 'need' it.
Is it a need or is it a want? The whole path towards early retirement has been an exercise of need and want and rightly or wrongly, i have lumped it into the same process.
Whether this is an exercise in brain washing, or lying to oneself, has yet to be seen.
Some time ago, I had begun to view my definition of love as winning a lottery.
If i spend my life feeling incomplete for not winning a lottery, my entire life would be indeed empty and wasted. No man or woman should live this way spending their life waiting for a lottery.
If i spend my life feeling full of gratitude and that winning the lottery is just but an incidental serendipitous gift from life, than my life overflows.
Having said that, just like I have the capacity to gorge on a whole large size pack of potato chips on any given day, so too do i have the capacity of whipping my mind into a state of longingness for that which i do not have.
In addition, how wrong is it to rationalize love in this manner? Do we all not deserve this experience?
But for the most part, i rarely think these thoughts. As they become counterproductive.
It is not that i am now a tinman without a heart. My thoughts on this subject matter are an evolution of years of reflection and some pain, and although they all seem so wrapped up and simplistically stated in sound bite sentences, it has taken a long long time to reach these conclusions and come to this state.
I can write pages and pages on this topic, but it would diverge too much from this forum, but:
I would explode if i got what i wanted, i cannot fathom it. You wouldn't see me on this forum anymore for one ;P as I don't think it would be something that I'd want to share, and my passion and energy would be consumed with 'her' rather than 'this'. Again, in my world, it's all or nothing.
But the subject matter that you have brought up is actually a very nice segue into what i want to write about in my next post..


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#029 14/05/2013 Mastery of Solitude
In one of my earliest posts, I expressed that the process of minimalism and decluttering in the pursuit of early retirement for me has been both physical (possessions, things, money/expenses, etc.) and mental(social, spiritual, noise,etc).
The objective was (among other things) to gain autonomy and freedom.
To be the person I was meant to be, not the person I compromised to be.
Physical
In one my recent replies to a post, I've expressed that as it pertains to the physical/financial/possession decluttering and downsizing, that any more taking away or sacrificing at this point for me, I feel would be anorexic.
And that any more gross accumulation or surplus maximization beyond my current levels (in specific, not doing the 20/50/50), would be hoarding.
For the physical things-money, possessions, savings, etc, I feel I am now at my 'homeostatic' level, an optimal balance point of financial health.
Anything less, would be malnourishing.
Anything more, would be fat.
For now, I feel I am at my ideal financial 'weight'. This doesn't mean it's done and over with. This still needs to be managed and maintained. But at the very least, it has been found.
However,
The mental aspect of this transition has yet to catch up with the financial.
Mental
It is quite amazing that I use to walk and talk and prance around like an extrovert, contrary to my nature.
In the process of this 'mental/social' decluttering, I have left Facebook, left my primary peer group, solo'd to Kathmandu and took meditation at a monastery, quit the rinse and repeat drinking 'culture', and left my primary mastery pursuit (ie. beach volleyball).
On a smaller scale, there have been changes to the day to day routine of my life to further declutter:
-On Saturday and Sunday mornings, I start my day at coffee shops reading for a few hours.

-I have shifted my work start time from 9am, to 8:30am, to 8am, to 7:30am, to where is starts now to 7:15am-3:15am, to avoid big commuter crowds, the hustle and bustle and noise

-I eat lunch at 11:15am, which avoids the food court jams, line ups and bustle, and instead of doing the 'social lunch thing' I read

-I drive and walk without the radio or music

-almost never attend parties

-visit the park several times a week

-And, like a giant dork, I wear earplugs a lot at work, when I am walking and when I am on public transit. Pretty much every where I go I don't leave home without them.
But despite all this mental/social downsizing and decluttering, I feel there is still a lot of fat still there.
Although my thoughts, awareness, and my 'now' feel clearer than they ever have, I feel I have much much more to trim to get to the mental homeostatis that I want.
Correction.
That I need.
The Broken Introvert Recharger
For the most part, I feel my 'Introvert Recharger' is broken.
The things that I used to do to 'recharge' my introverted self to inhabit the 'extroverted' world, give me less and less power.. less of a charge.
In particular, no amount of 'recharging' has yet to ever seem to be enough.
It feels like the opposite of the Spinal Tap Volume 11 setting. The converse of an extroverts need for maximum stimulation.
What I seek is volume Level -1...
But all I ever seem to get is Volume Level 6.
Even with the significant quieting of my life, it also seems that 'introvert recharging' in an extroverted world is only but a temporal vaccination to fight off a virus that keeps coming back.
Why must I always need constant recharging?
Can't I be fully charged most or all the time?
What would this take? Where would this be? How would this life be?
As an introvert, i think it is imperative for me to explore and seek out this -1.
To find this homeostasis.
It is thus with my new found freedom and autonomy, the mastery of which I have begun to pursue is the mastery of solitude..


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@MBGI:"The mental aspect of this transition has yet to catch up with the financial."
I suspect that will be something that a lot of us will have to deal with once we are FI, like you are now. In many respects, the financial aspect of the problem is much easier to master than the mental aspect.


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#030 16/05/2013 Why Solitude and what I've learned about it so far
What I have learned so far is that two important ingredients to human potential are:
1. An Independent Free mind

2. A healthy dose of integrated solitude in one's life
An Independent Free mind
Following the path to early retirement does not necessarily free my mind and give me independent thought, but I find that it does make my mind/thought ripe to do so.
By the very nature of following a road less traveled, going off the beaten path, and questioning conventional living and the norms of thought of the masses, I have the potential to become more independent minded.
However, to be truly of independent thought and free mind and therefore make it easier to reach human potential:
I must not blindly replace one set of prescribed living and thought of the masses with another, more specialized, pre-packaged formula for living and thought.
Mentors, role models and scholars of experience, lead me down a path that makes it much much easier for me to live a better life and way of thinking and reach a better 'human potential'.
Their sheer testimony, guidance and wisdom can make me blindly fanatical, and their influence alone can make me 'better' than I was before.
However, this does not necessarily make me an independent free minded thinker, and therefore does not place me on a path of human potential.
If I am simply copying them, I have become a drone.

A robot.

A replica.

A knockoff of the original.
I have simply replaced one dogma with another, replacing one formula with another, but have not made my thought and mind free. I have only made one decision to replace one dogma with another.
So, what I have learned is one must be of true independent thought and mind, and follow a truly unique path to get closer to your human potential.
A path no one has followed before. A painting not a product.
While mentors, role models and scholars can certainly help me to get there easier and have a tremendous shaping influence, the path must be an individual path to a personal mastery, not a replica mastery of another.
Solitude
What I have also learned is that in combination with independent thinking, solitude has almost always been the ripe fertile soil in which human potential is nurtured.
Genius, inventions, creativity, and enlightenment are almost always born from solitude.
Solitude does not necessarily create these things, but it makes it ripe to do so.
Just because a soil is fertile, a flower will not magically bloom unless it is planted and nurtured.
So many of the people I admire, and the way they have lived and impacted society had solitude integrated into their lives.
If I look up any great mind, any great person of achievement I admire, independent thought and solitude are almost always at the root of their being. All great philosophers for example.
So much of society lives meager and unfulfilling lifes because they have replaced healthy does of solitude with constant distraction and low hanging fruit stimulation.
The constant distraction has short circuited their human potential.
TV. Internet. Text Messaging. Online Chat. Social Media. Peer Pressure. Status. Advertising. Alcohol. Drugs.
The travesty is that most then live and die unaware that their life was full of distraction, and that they never reached their potential.
Reading. Solitude. Introspection. Reflection. Nature.
Are all too often neglected.
It is my opinion that those who have figured it out, and who have put these things in their rightful place, and have prioritized solitude in some aspect of their life, more often than not have reached a greater human potential.
So, what I have learned then is that independent thinking and solitude are at the core of my 'early retirement philosophy'.
Where I am going
This weekend is a long weekend holiday in Canada, Victoria weekend.
I have never done a canoe portage before.
I wanted to do this solo, but I realized that for the first time I go, I really should go with someone to show me the way and don't put myself in danger. I haven't been on a canoe since very young.
So, I asked/convinced a good friend of mine to come with me. Fortunately he's a pretty cerebral guy as well. We are going 2 hours up north to a provincial reserve for three nights.
This first trip is the orientation, the next will be solo, and an exercise in solitude.
Happy long weekend!


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Post by J_ »

Is it coincidence? In 1983 I made a 7 days canoe trip with portages in the Algonquin Reserve, Canada. Perhaps the same where you are going this weekend. It was very exiting, the distant cry of the Loon in the night, the raid of raccoons on your food-duffel bag you had hung high between two trees..

It was soltitude although we were with three (wife and daughter of 13)
(Years later I found out I could make the same kind of solitude-trips in the lakes of Sweden and Finland, and save a transatlantic crossing. But then I had missed the pleasant way people go with each other in Toronto, the French speaking Mont Real people and that green Ottawa.)
I wish you a pleasant exercise!


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Post by My_Brain_Gets_Itchy »

@j_:
Wow that's awesome! I didn't know you traveled to Canada before, and Algonquin nonetheless!
I want to do my solo at Algonquin, preferable alone on a small island, but this time around we are going to a place closer and more convenient by a place called Massassauga Provincial Park. It's only a couple hrs drive from the city as opposed to 4-6 hours.
This time around it will be a more watered down version of solitude but solitude nonetheless!
Thank you very much for the well wishes!


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Post by spoonman »

@MBGI: I often imagine myself running off to a log cabin near an alpine lake where I can experience sweet solitude.
Solitude can serve as a great catalyst for change.


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Post by JoThomas »

@MBGI, I'm 43 now but when I was 23 I road my bike solo, Wisconsin to Oregon, then down the coast and across the Southwest, back to Wisconsin, 100 days and about 7000 miles. It was scary when I started but I soon found pure bliss. It was what I needed at the time, graduate school dropout and depressed by days and days of staring at computers or equations in textbooks. My mood lifted immediately and I felt the pure joy of embracing a day - not knowing where I'd end up at the end of the day but knowing it would work out. The thing that surprised me was how much I enjoyed being alone on the journey. Also, a remarkable thing, I learned that when you're tuned into your intuition and really know what you're supposed to be doing, the universe provides. I learned not to fear the unknown - as each day was a trek to another unknown but I found what I needed by evening; food, a safe sleeping spot, book to read. It still stands as my all time favorite summer.


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Post by sshawnn »

I really enjoy reading your journal. Can't wait to hear about the canoe trip.


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