Salathor wrote: ↑Wed Oct 06, 2021 7:41 pm
Thanks to your references on here, I just picked up
The World-Ending Fire by Berry from the library. I just finished the third essay and am finding a lot of value in it.
I'd be interested in reading Kingsnorth's intro in
The World-Ending Fire (I'm assuming he has one). I'm such a MASSIVE fan of Kingsnorth, ever the more so since he publicly announced his conversion to orthodox (also Orthodox) Christianity. Glad you're liking Berry. I need to read more of him--both fiction and the essays.
Vaikeasti wrote: ↑Thu Oct 07, 2021 7:20 am
How are you and the kids doing?
I'm really envious of your wife's work arrangement. You seem to have a very solid relationship together and with your kids.
All the best to you.
Very nice of you to say so; thanks!
The Botev clan is doing well. DW's new work arrangement started on Sunday, and she worked Sunday through Wednesday of this week, and now she doesn't go back to work until NEXT FRIDAY (and she's not taking any PTO days!). It's fantastic. The grocery bill (our Achilles' heel) is going to drop drastically, as DW loves to cook from scratch but just hasn't had the time to do it much. So, we're now effectively a household with two part-time working parents; she works 5 days every 2 weeks, and I work roughly 30 hours/week, with the flexibility (mostly) to choose which days I choose to leave early, or come in late, etc.
I've been reading a lot. I finished the Iliad and am halfway through The Odyssey (had my first seminar for the Odyssey last night). I've read CS Lewis's 4 Loves and Abolition of Man. I read Walker Percy's Second Coming (doing a "book club" on it with my dad!). Also finished Franklin's autobiography, and I'm currently working on Dune and Asimov's Foundation, as I'd like to read those (re-read in the case of Dune) before seeing their most recent screen adaptations. I'm also part of a side-seminar on Nietzsche, which is starting with Birth of Tragedy. And of course I've been gobbling up Kingsnorth's "Machine" essays (only 1 more left!). I'm also coaching my son's 3rd grade basketball team this year, and as I know nothing about the game and never played, I've been taking copious notes as I read through every "how to survive coaching youth basketball" book that the library has on its shelves. The basketball thing has been fun, as I never really understood the game, apart from the basics, and I already have a much better understanding of the intricacies of what's happening, such that I'm actually starting to enjoy watching the game--to see how the players move with and without the ball, what sort of defensive schemes are at play, etc. Anyway, I coached a few seasons of my son's soccer, but that was back when it was really just about "touches" and otherwise herding cats. This will be different because I'm actually expected to teach them the game (3rd grade is the first year kids can play in this league, and there's a huge emphasis on teaching fundamentals, equal playing time, and ball movement and playing as a team). So, I'm looking forward to the challenge.
I've stuck with my 3x5 card note-taking system, which has proved super helpful in many different areas of my life. And I see that it's already starting to change the way I think in small ways. E.g., when I have something like a brief or a letter to write at work, I no longer just open up a word document and start typing, organizing my thoughts as I go. Rather, I write down each of the points/refutations I want to make on individual cards, with separate cards for the support for each of those points/refutations, and then I organize the cards such that by the time I open up a word document I know what needs to be said and where I want to say it, and all that is left is the wordsmithing. My work product is much better, and the more I practice this strategy the more efficient I'll get. I see no reason why I can't extend this strategy to other writing as well. E.g., I've always wanted to write a small history book focused on some local thing--like the history of my parish, or of my neighborhood, etc. And with this 3x5 strategy I'm able to take notes as I do research, and then come back to those notes right where I left off, maybe weeks later; I no longer need to set aside huge chunks of time and block out distractions to get big writing projects done.
So, so many possibilities with this way of organizing my thoughts. Another benefit, I'm reading much less Internet click-baity junk than I used to, and a big reason is because my mind is already starting to be trained to expect to pull at least some card-worthy note/idea/quote/etc. from everything I read; and, well, that's just not going to happen with your typical "news" article that populates from my news aggregator.
Finally, the BIG thing that's been weighing on my mind lately (and DW's mind) is whether we make a move somewhere up north in 2024, when DD finishes middle school. We're struggling with the decision, and are 100% confident one way on Monday, then 100% confident the other way on Tuesday, and back and forth.
We shall see.
For now, the plan is to take a trip to a couple of the places we're looking at over spring break.