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tbh, I came back to some (maybe pseudo)coaching I encountered 10-12 yrs ago
(somebody back then told me to become Renaissance ideal and quoted "Market wizards" )
I saw prices of psychiatric/psychologic help here, but I healed instantly after such event.
to some extent I believe that what's written here is truth
in reality I haven't read this, because I don't wanna spoil my blood.
I rather drowned in nihilism (IN THE PAST) after staying too much on MGTOW/TRP (I haven't been there for like 1-2 yrs), so I know "the content".
in case anybody accusses me of staying late and wallowing in nihilism... it doesn't work this way.
it goes more like:
not caring about social life -> living life -> realizing that's not ok -> going out of my cave -> people not neccessarliy interested in me -> having X factor which triggers bad response -> going back to point 1 -> getting bitter in the basement -> ... -> rinse and repeat
it's more about realizing which parameters are above average and maxing them.
or I'm maybe day-dreamer/process reality differently according MBTI
I don't want this topic coming down to discussing current relationship landscape (duh...) again.
Somehow it's connected, because HR ladies rate my resume (I'm gonna not attach photo next time) before it goes to technical manager.
I need also somehow pass psychological tests and be seen as normal/"teamplayer".
current my biggest black pill is "aristocratic" one.
There're some people on this planet who earn 500k USD per day and are looking for fools who gonna destroy their health for measly 100k USD per year working in Middle East. (inb4 capital accumulation and hard work of being born in some dynasty :-DDDDD)
I simply wanna share interesting stuff/discuss some problems.
this is transcribed from audio (live seminar) by some AI/ quotes from pdfs
Consistent effort creates ‘luck’... as in ‘let's go get lucky’ by choice.
When I bitch and complain about things I don't have to feel responsible for them.
I can tell myself about how bad other people are I can complain about it to myself just kind of stew in my own pity and that gives me a mild feeling of superiority over others.
And while I mean that I'm better than you thought process I don't have to pay attention to what else is going on.
And I get to feel a little bit superior.
Get rid of that stuff
Our minds tend to link things together and find meaning even where there Is
none. This process is happening all the time, and leaves no clues. It brings us
incredible benefits, but because of its nature, often leads to ‘impoverished
models’ of reality.
• When your good-intentioned mind creates a meaning or link between things that it
isn't useful to have linked, you must ‘manually’ go in and UN-link them.
• One way to do this is called 'Refraining’.
• When you Reframe, you challenge beliefs, break associations, and create new
meanings... and therefore new possibilities.
PS. yes, I know this is prolly phony NLP. I also have access to rational wiki, I can type in google "x scientfic consensus", but
"if somethig is stupid and works, keep doing it.
In case something is stupid and doesn't work, stop doing it".
PS2. I can type in paragraphs, but this is not a test.
PS3. I tried discussing some current banter/pre-bullying against me in my workplace with one my friends IRL. He is tall, good face. high(er) IQ, realized many ideas I daydreamt, is more popular, prolly ENTFJ/ENTP.
I proposed MBTI, Gervais principle, semi-black pill as frameworks to consider why I fail and asked what I can do about it (from outside perspective, because I tend to fall into grandiosity/persecution complex).
He doesn't know MBTI, only watched "The office" (didn't get into Gervais principle), haven't heard about black pill. Proposed to study "cognitive abilities", because he listened to Jordan Peterson recently.
Anyway, your take?