Fox's Journey: And Onto the Sunlight!

Where are you and where are you going?
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BRUTE
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Re: Fox's Journey: And Onto the Sunlight!

Post by BRUTE » Tue Jun 12, 2018 9:59 pm

didn't he leave?

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Re: Fox's Journey: And Onto the Sunlight!

Post by TopHatFox » Sun Sep 23, 2018 10:33 pm

FALL 2018

Transition from NYC to Miami:

A success. I've been working as the anthropology department's manager at a local university @50k/yr for about 3 months now. Not paying state or local taxes and not paying rent since my parents are here. All I'm due for is $15 Mint Mobile, chip-in for food, public transit, and the occasional night out. Double-Jaw surgery is scheduled for next month using my new role's health insurance, with paid vacation to recover. Started my (free) masters in public administration with a concentration in environmental and higher ed management. Build a separation to rent out my parents' house and that's been helping them. Working on the tiny house out back. Miami is so easy career wise compared to NYC. I feel like the people here aren't very...smart, to be honest. Pretty, yes, but not very smart. Only thing I've really been struggling with is finding a gf. It was much easier in Massachusetts for me to get attention, but awell, I'll keep hitting up the environmentalist hipsters in Wynwood and go from there. There's always Colorado after the Masters is done in around 2 years.

I found out that I do better when I read and listen to podcasts than use forums (unless if it's for something really specific like asking about Roth Conversions or something), so I'll check in much more infrequently now knowing that.

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Networth: 65K

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Re: Fox's Journey: And Onto the Sunlight!

Post by C40 » Sun Sep 23, 2018 11:41 pm

It's COMEBACK SEASON for the Foxy one. Yeah buddy!

I happen to know a thicc spicy cuban girl named Salome who lives in Miami. She's smart for her age (probably about the same age as you), I think she's vegan and environmentalist, a dog expert, has a gig housesitting a luxury high-rise condo, and goes to places like Portland for vacations. That's where I met her. I could possibly internet-introduce you through Instagram. She has a spectacular butt.

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Re: Fox's Journey: And Onto the Sunlight!

Post by BRUTE » Mon Sep 24, 2018 1:26 am

good.

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Post by BRUTE » Mon Sep 24, 2018 1:32 am

C40 wrote:
Sun Sep 23, 2018 11:41 pm
thicc [..] vegan [..] spectacular butt.
citation needed

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Post by C40 » Mon Sep 24, 2018 9:38 am

Ok I'm checking..

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Post by prognastat » Mon Sep 24, 2018 9:42 am

Welcome back, glad to hear it's going well.

As for gf front, not much you can do except getting out and meeting people doing things you like that they would have in common. Hopefully eventually you'll then meet someone.

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Post by C40 » Mon Sep 24, 2018 10:25 am

Ok, here's your citation BRUTE: She's been vegetarian for 6-7 years, and vegan for 2-3. She's got those fierce Latina fertility genes. I think her butt (and boobs) will always be big unless she's totally starving.

Fox - while you're single, I recommend becoming a masturbation expert and learning/practicing some things that will make sex better when you do get partner(s): being able to have non-ejaculator orgasms, and being able to have multiple orgasms. Or I suppose you could go the other route, become a 'master of your domain', and believe then your drive will make it happen. But that will only be useful if you're able to not get too impatient.

Edit - and you could use your extra free time to learn more about another important thing:
https://www.amazon.com/Box-Lunch-Layper ... unnilingus

https://www.amazon.com/She-Comes-First- ... omes+first

And if you haven't read this, I found it useful in relationships along with other ares of life:
https://www.amazon.com/Please-Understan ... 1885705026
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Re: Fox's Journey: And Onto the Sunlight!

Post by CS » Mon Sep 24, 2018 10:31 am

lol! That is not how I'd recommend getting/keeping a girlfriend. However, it does make it more fun when you do snag one...

In case you are interested -
Step one, get out of the male mindset. (Hint, telling her that her recommendation came with references to butt and boobs is not a good idea. She knows. Every guy drools in non-subtle ways. Be different.)

There are other steps, but they mostly involve not being selfish, and you're smart enough to figure them out. :lol:

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Post by prognastat » Mon Sep 24, 2018 10:34 am

Oh and keep in mind there are worse things than being single. Such as being miserable in a loveless relationship where you just annoy one another. You're better off taking your time to finding someone than rushing into something because you believe it will make your happier.

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Re: Fox's Journey: And Onto the Sunlight!

Post by TheWanderingScholar » Mon Sep 24, 2018 1:59 pm

Hey you are not dead!

Happy you are the situation you are is nice. GF problems always exist if you let it.

Source; Currently single and apathetic about it.

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Post by Kriegsspiel » Mon Sep 24, 2018 2:17 pm

TopHatFox wrote:
Sun Sep 23, 2018 10:33 pm
Double-Jaw surgery is scheduled for next month using my new role's health insurance, with paid vacation to recover.
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Confirm?

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Re: Fox's Journey: And Onto the Sunlight!

Post by Crazylemon » Mon Sep 24, 2018 3:04 pm

Glad things are going well

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Post by daylen » Mon Sep 24, 2018 3:06 pm

Fox for president, 2032.

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Post by daylen » Mon Sep 24, 2018 3:15 pm

Actually, just kidding. That is a terrible job.

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Post by 2Birds1Stone » Mon Sep 24, 2018 8:04 pm

Read a PDF version I found free online this afternoon. Good stuff, my SO thanks you in advance.

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Post by Scott 2 » Tue Sep 25, 2018 12:13 am

Big change from NYC. Congrats on figuring things out.

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Post by Gilberto de Piento » Tue Sep 25, 2018 7:59 am

I'm glad THF is doing well, though I am even more happy that his journal turned into a discussion about big butts. What's the story on that anyway? Have you guys always leaned in that direction or are you just trying to be on trend?

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Re: Fox's Journey: And Onto the Sunlight!

Post by C40 » Tue Sep 25, 2018 11:55 am

(within the realm of admiration of body parts...) I've always liked big butts. Partly because I just do, and partly because they are to some degree within the woman's control and correlate with fitness/health.

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