Cheap date ideas
1 - What are good date ideas that are cheap or free?
2 – How do I take women on these for first or early dates without seeming weird?
And a bonus question:
3 – How do I meet frugal or open-minded women who will appreciate me not blowing much money instead of being put off?
Details:
So I’ve been looking for a girlfriend, and dating much more lately. Normal date activities are often expensive (Dinner, meeting for drinks).
So far I've been taking girls out drinking, and a couple to dinner. When I go to bars myself, I control the cost by taking a flask. But when I’m on a date with just one other person whom I just met, it might be too odd to drink from my flask and offer it to them instead of buying them a drink. And I don't go out to dinner otherwise. I have done some cheaper things like meeting for coffee or taking a blanket and some drinks to the park.
Dating and low spending can feel a bit at odds at times. But I don’t think it has to be that way. I just need to meet more open-minded/weird/adventurous people.
Some of my own initial ideas:
1 – Cheap dates:
- - Art or history museum (there are a couple free ones close to me)
- Relax at the park. Picnic, drink, walk, etc..
- Zoo (free here)
- Coffee shop
- Watch movie at home
- Have a drink / coffee / tea at home
- Go for a hike or walk somewhere interesting
?? I don’t know… I guess I should just start trying and see how it goes. Many options on my initial list above aren’t all that weird. To some extent, if a woman is going to be put off by me not taking her to dinner at some point (whether sooner or later) then she might as well be put off right away, and we might as well not go the first time. So seeming weird might not be entirely bad… (?)… But – I can imagine women I currently know who would be good girlfriends being put off by someone suggesting something ‘strange’ right off (When they would be perfectly ok with cheap dates once they know a guy better). They are just accustomed to going through certain motions (?) Does this make any sense?
3 - How to meet frugal women?
???...
- The neighborhood I live in is pretty low key. Smallish houses. Neighborhood bars. Some festivals in the summer. I should be able to meet people around here.
- There are a lot of very different bars in St Louis. Might be able to find a few that have the kind of folks I want to meet. Not quite sure if that’s worth all the exploring.
- I remember Akratic writing about going to Couchsurfing.com meet ups. I’ve been meaning to look into that here.