I think we got so wrapped up in the cook it at home discussion that we lost sight of the original question. The ERE way is make it at home and do a better job than Rock That Burger.
But as @THF asked “is this normal”? No. It’s FUBAR. And staying home, making an artisan burger or pizza in your kitchen is not a complete substitute for a restaurant meal. It’s great and I’ll happy to do it but it’s not going to cut it for a first date with a near stranger. At some point it isn’t cool to go home all alone and make some artisan meal to consume all by yourself.
The median pay you’re talking about sounds nominally kind of low. My first job out of school prior to 2000 paid over $100k for new hires. This was at Hewlett-Packard. Pretty mundane STEM career coding and designing digital electronics. Burgers weren’t $30 either.
So yes, something is off. No wonder why all the young people are complaining. The system is out of whack. Either your job isn’t paying enough to enjoy a burger out or restaurant labor is just too expensive for a normal person. Both sound ridiculous but something isn’t adding up. I’m not in the food prep biz but eventually the restaurant will run out of customers to serve. Or perhaps THF’s pay is way under the median in his locale.
My shopkeeper’s intuition is things are temporarily out of whack. Burgers won’t sell because median consumers can no longer afford them. Restaurants will close. We’ll end up in recession. Restaurant labor will go down in price as the jobs dry up. Burger price will drop.
Maybe? Things can stay out of whack a long time. Look at the car market today. The prices are ridiculous and people are digging deep into their financing to get in a new car despite the insane prices. My friend just paid $42,000 OTD for a Toyota Camry last month. It has a lot of fluffy options but it’s still a 4 cylinder non hybrid model. That’s insane.
The alternative - burger night out in a new Camry is only for millionaires. Sounds crazy.
I mean, we can fight back by all becoming expert mechanics and fixing up a car we got free at the junkyard but that sounds dystopian.
So yes THF, this isn’t normal.
The solutions, like don’t buy a new car, or cook your own damn burger don’t really address the issue that something is not right in the economy.
In the meantime I’m going to stay at home and not partake in expensive outside activities. Hopefully the rest of the country will do this and cause a deflationary recession.