@brute - Inconceivable, yes! Indeed, ... Obviously you grokked the meme/reference.
So step 1: Acknowledge what might be currently "inconceivable to you" is actually and potentially conceivable with personal effort, e.g. realizing that there's a difference between known-unknowns and unknown-knows. This realization, as far as I've noticed, is absolutely the biggest difference between those who positively impact return/risk ratios compared to the cult of ignorance. Indeed, it's the difference between personal growth and stagnation for all subjects of knowledge. I find that ERE or FIRE itself is not that much different from investing when it comes to one's frame of mind wrt a particular subject. There will always be people who think that whatever subject they don't personally understand is impossible to understand for anybody(!) And because of the internet they will always be able to google some experts (academics or gurus or whatever) to "prove" it too whenever it comes to subjects that don't have an immediate answer to hit people on the head with (e.g. tobacco, global warming, national debt, sugar consumption, meat eating, the benefit of exercise, personal finance choices, ... ). However, this behaviour is a dead-end in terms of personal and intellectual growth. This is the most important thing to realize/accept.
So there's a specific effort for anyone .. get beyond that mental mode. Just because you don't see it(*) doesn't mean it isn't there,
(*)The cigar in the wall, that is!
Because I find these "
learning-level" discussions
frustrating rather than hilarious, I would also say, that if my induction argument above wasn't obvious, don't bother to waste you time levelling up/going meta, rather just copy the prevailing paradigm and be done with it. This is not for everyone. This is totally fine. I recommend the standard approach to most people including friends and family.
Note: I do recognize that repeating "randomness as gospel" has memetic value because it reinforces ignorance, which reinforces faith, which again supports staying power and the survival of the strategy, much like religion, but on the other hand ... eventually, if a
strategy relies on simple reinforcement without support based on fundamentals, it is not self-consistent and it will break eventually (the link is the best investment metaphor I've ever seen). But maybe it'll work long enough and adherent will [unknowingly] adapt to another one. So there's that. It takes a certain time to punish ignorance. I heartily recommend "whatever current paradigm as supported by academic teaching to undergraduates" to anyone who doesn't want to bother.
I think what we have is very much a competition between supporting the faith of the cult of ignorance vs inspiring the minority who are actually able to make a difference for their return/risk numbers. I get vocal when the former discourages the latter.
So step 2: Study and keep at it. I've mentioned where to start before here and there. It's quite evident that the "random crowd" hasn't gotten much beyond a few anecdotes/popular books. Anyone who is really clueless as to where to start, first go figure what your average CFA guy has read. Then read that! It's only 10000 pages. Then PM me.
The end goal should be to sort yourself (you personally) into one of the following four groups:
1) Those who know that they can beat the market.
2) Those who know that they can't beat the market.
3) Those who don't know yet that they can beat the market.
4) Those who don't know yet that they can't beat the market.
I find that group 3 and 4 are citing group 2 (academics and failures) as ultimate proof annoyingly often. This is to the advantage of group 4 and to the detriment of group 3. Yes, if you don't want to bother, you can punt and join group 4 but please don't be an ass and join the chorus of group 2 and 4 preventing group 3 from joining group 1, eh? Fair enough?