Re: Forum Posting Ethics
Posted: Thu Oct 26, 2017 2:41 pm
Deleted - don't even ask what silly thing I did, like making a post quoting myself.
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I kinda suspect he learned that the hard way as well.Confucius wrote: I never try to make people open up [to the world of learning] unless they already have a pent up excitement about it. Then if I give them one corner [of a problem or point of study], if they do not come back to me with the other three corners I will not involve myself with them again.
jacob wrote: ↑Thu Oct 26, 2017 3:47 pmThere's another thing I've been thinking about. I kinda hesitate to post it, because I'm not sure it's a good idea as it might quench people's desire to post---seeing how so many are already hesitant to do so in this ... illustrious company
My issue which l vent not as the benign dictator and overlord of this domain but as a private person is the frustration of sharing expert knowledge in general.
The problem is that with modern era social media, that "rule" is often replaced with
Now what we see in practice is that when some beginner asks a question, they will often get a combination of answers with varying levels of expertise and opinion. You can see the quantitative ratio by clicking on the second link. Having different perspectives when it comes to opinion is a good idea when it comes to politics, lifestyles, life-lessons (anecdote), ... But when it comes to verifiable facts, multiple perspectives a terrible idea. There aren't sides or alternatives to reality.
There's something in either the Analects or the Tao Te Ching about how it is the expert's role to teach and the beginner's role to learn, but also how it is the role of other people (non-beginners) to point out who is the expert and who is the beginner because otherwise beginners can't tell the difference between experts and other beginners.
See, ideally, the graph would be an increasing monotonic function where the more expertise one had, the more inclined one would be to share it. Instead, there's a tendency for humans to get fairly strongly opinionated after just a little bit of knowledge and then shutting up after learning some more and realizing how little they know. At this point people close their mouth and open their ears; and therefore they create the valley in the graph and thus do not serve the function underlined above.
So instead of sharing expert knowledge, the consequence is that experts end up debating people who know just enough to have an opinion but not enough to know how little they know.
For sharing expert knowledge, this is both enervating and aggravating. You end up arguing 101 stuff in the form of a debate which is very frustrating. Worse, you never get to move onto 202 stuff because there's a continuous influx of new beginners who want to share their own opinion. It's exasperating debating multiplication with people, who believe multiplying is impossible because they can't be bothered to learn it, when you could be teaching calculus.
Now, some eventually catch on as to who is the expert and who is just opinionated. They will then reveal (privately) how they’re eventually only paying attention to one "side" of the debate (the expert side) and how they actually learn a lot.
As an expert in a couple of fields (finance, climate) it's nice to be appreciated and told [usually in private] that all the energy that has been sunk into stupid debates wasn't completely wasted. It's also nice to be told when someone realizes that you actually know a lot more than they initially thought but that they didn't realize it at first [almost always in private ... few people will admit this publicly]. I'm sure people with expert knowledge in other fields have felt the same and experienced the same secret appreciation in other fields.
But...
The problem is that we could be sharing so much more expertise if it was pointed out more publicly. I don't mean that as some kind of public thank-you note or expressions of support. I don't think such make much of a difference. Rather:
If there's an ongoing debate between whether it's possible to master the multiplication table or whether 5x7 consistently gives the same result. Then beginners ought (in my opinion) pick up a basic math book instead of figuring that the truth is that math is really hard and not worth learning because because you get ten different answers when you ask online followed by lots of debate on who is right(*)
This is a far more effective approach than trying to learn by watching a pseudo-debate.
(*) I'm sure everybody has seen one of those facebook memes, where people are asked the result to 3 - 1 * 5 + 2 always resulting in several different answers (12, 0, 14, etc.) as people are only too happy to share their opinions/effective math expertise or lack thereof for the world to seeYou might also have noticed that even for something like that the signal/noise ratio is absolutely shameful and debates can carry on for a long time. This might even have happened on a sufficiently regular basis that you have a fairly good idea of who of your friends and family are going through their adult lives with a 3rd or a 7th grade math level understanding and who is 11th grade or higher.
Someone originally believing that 5x7 is such a large number so as to be impossible to compute but eventually realizing that it's possible to add five sevens and even memorize severals dozens of such results should not shut up and sit back only paying attention to the experts, but point out the difference between the expert and the math-resistant first grader to the kindergarteners, so they don't hold themselves back by listening too much to the resistant first-graders.
More importantly, talk about what you learned, how you learned it, and why it's important. This takes attention away from the uninformed sophomores who otherwise dominate the threads and frees energy for the experts from wasting time on a pseudo-debate to spending more time adding insight.
In conclusion: When it comes to ethics (the moral rules for a well-functioning community), I don't blame the unconsciously incompetent for debating because they're often not conscious of their own incompetence. Therefore, they can be forgiven---kinda like how you forgive fools and children or yourself, because they're just acting according to their nature. The blame, rather sits with those who do know better but don't point out how they used to be that ignorant and how they learned more. The blame also sits with those who know they know nothing but can't be assed to make an effort to learn i.e. those who don't read links, books, and ask the same questions over and over.
Wait. When did we meet?Side note, I knew a person that liked to 'learn' by debating. They wouldn't look up anything ahead of time. It was exhausting to interact with them.
@Jacobjacob wrote: ↑Thu Oct 26, 2017 7:12 pm
I think if the goal is seen as increasing expertise itself, my complaint about behaviors that are not helping to increase expertise becomes clearer:
- If beginners don't bother to acquire even a basic level of knowledge, but instead rely on others to take them by their hand and walk them through, that takes away time that could be used to develop more expertise.
- If valley people (for lack of a much better word) don't share the knowledge that helped them get over the mountain but ALSO leave that to others, then that also takes away time that could be used to develop more.
Experts aren't immune to the "this is a debate" conundrum. Let me give you a personal example. I was at a party and I was introduced to a professor from a local university. We got along cordially and spent the time discussing mutually interesting topics. After a few laughs and drinks, we got around to discussing his work where he revealed he has done extensive research on asbestos. I've read a lot of papers on asbestos since I was exposed to it frequently many years ago; it was a warehouse with low hanging asbestos wrapped pipes. These pipes were constantly raining down clouds of asbestos as a result of the collisions caused by forklift propelled goods. No one knew it was asbestos until it was tested several years later. No worries - my lungs are free and clear to this day.jacob wrote: ↑Sat Oct 28, 2017 8:45 amA good teacher is in my opinion someone who maintains a theory of mind of the learning path and who is able to identify what someone knows but more importantly what they don't know and then tailor their response to that. The risk is that such responses may easily be perceived as a debate(*) and this is why a teaching approach can fail.....This is why learning requires some cooperation and effort from both parties before it can happen.
I'm coming back to your post in an effort to mitigate the chilling effect of the meta-discussion. In my estimation, most posters here (yourself included) do not cause too much of an issue when acting according to your own nature; i.e. most are unconsciously semi-competent and the result is decidedly net positive. We still see things that require moderation (e.g. yesterday's sailor-stories cleanup) but that is not what I'm talking about here. What I am talking is related to the observation that:
So if you're an infrequent visitor and always go straight to your room (i.e. topics you start) it's understandable and acceptable(*), but please don't delude yourself into thinking that you're doing a great favor for the community by posting here. And if you live here but you still spend all of your time in your room, then this almost certainly tends towards net-negative unless you throw great parties. In an objective sense. The kind that keep others coming back, not the types of parties that cause hangovers and require cleanup.
If it makes you feel better, I brace myself when reading new responses because posters here tend to be plain and direct. I find it is easier to not expect agreement. That makes any feeling of disappointment go away faster. It's a much different environment than school or office work which is much more supportive in my experience. (I suspect that's the case because those institutions care about retention.) You just have to have an open mind, a thick skin, and prefer truth to agreement. And if you're posting about politics or any other eternal disagreement (health and diet included), then I don't know what else you can expect. You're kind of asking for it.blackbird wrote: ↑Thu Oct 26, 2017 7:28 amAlmost every time I post (and this time is probably going to be no different), I regret doing so because I either feel like:
1. I should have spent more time framing my question, because I believe the responses would have been less....(searching for the word here)...sharp? I guess is the best way to state it. [...]
3. I feel outright judgment, and then it takes me a long time (weeks, to months) to build up the willingness to post again. That feeling of judgment is something I believe isn't intentional (mostly) but still suppresses my desire to be more active.
I have nothing against beginner questions, but I do object to people asking questions as a substitute for Google. I also don't mind "obvious" questions if the poster signals that they've already looked/thought in the obvious places, because there's a good chance that someone else here understands the issue at a higher level than obvious.
Good for you! When I started posting my ratio of unfinished drafts to submitted posts was something like 6:1.
When information or advice is received, it is courteous and proper to for the requester to acknowledge it, and preferably go a little bit beyond by explaining how you're going to use that information, or how it changed your thinking. If there was an impact let us know that our time wasn't wasted. That being said, if you just started 3 other topics then it might be reasonable to wait before bumping the other thread with a thank you, to give other posters some breathing room. In my mind, it's a little rude to own more than 2-3 posts at a time on the "Active Topics" page, especially if you're the one doing the bumping. If it's already in the top half of "Active Topics" then I don't consider such a post a bump since it already has the forum's collective attention.SustainableHappiness wrote: ↑Sat Oct 28, 2017 9:55 amDoes saying thank you and tying up the topic to answers on a thread I've created unnecessarily bump up the topic (I agree with you Fish as I am an "Active Topics" browser) and waste forumites time, or is it balanced out by gratitude helping the sense of community?