ERE - poker edition

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Zanka
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ERE - poker edition

Post by Zanka » Wed Aug 02, 2017 6:31 am

Introduktion part 1

I open the envelope, 8000$. What? My head is spinning. Water leaking is not cheap (even if you and the landlord has insurance). Im on the phone and hear words like "fine print" "email attachments" etc. What am i going to do now?

This i what happened to me After running my personal finances down into the ground in an attempt so save the relationship with my daughters mother. I was out, mentaly and physicaly. I took a job. My parents lend me enough to hela me get back on my feet. And i suffered.

Wake up. Dress. Eat. Work. Sleep. And parenting. Keeping the dog alive. Breath.

During the "where schould the daugther live"-meetings I dressed up like Buddha to prevent open war and somehow managed to keep the shared custody.
She finaly calmed down and realized it is better to treat each other well.

I was tired beyond what I thought were possible. I missed the freedom of playing poker but i were alive..

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Re: ERE - poker edition

Post by Jason » Wed Aug 02, 2017 7:11 am

I empathize, I do. But the obvious question is whether there a correlation between the "freedom of playing poker" and the fact that your personal finances and arguably your complete personal life are both thoroughly lodged in the shitter.

And as I admit that I'm not big on either the whole Easter Religion thing or gambling in general, if they work for you, that's all that matters. That being said, I don't exactly recall the Dalai Llama winning The World Series of Poker.

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Re: ERE - poker edition

Post by Zanka » Wed Aug 02, 2017 7:34 am

Thank you for your response.

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Post by Jason » Wed Aug 02, 2017 7:54 am

Anytime. That's what I'm here for.

As a follow-up, did you think of contacting an attorney? $8K for flooding as a tenant seems excessive unless you left the bathtub running for a month or something of that nature.

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Re: ERE - poker edition

Post by Did » Wed Aug 02, 2017 8:03 am

Sounds like the start of a novel, but there's not that much information in the post. It's s journal so fair enough but I'm not sure how to respond except with it will get better and, financially anyway, you've come to the right place if you want to waste less.

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Post by Zanka » Wed Aug 02, 2017 8:27 am

Introduction part 2

So where were I. Oh yes, I was tired and working (in a "real" job) for the first time in a long while. I had been a professional pokerplayer for the last 8 years with all its ups and downs. (Tbh I had not been playing that much the last 1.5years or so due to my partner having some major health problems but anyways.)

So i made it trough the first year and after som well needed vacation I feel a lot better. I started reading up on minimalism and naturaly found jakobs site that way. I have no idea if i can pull of an ERE or just an ER, I have started to take this serously as of yesterday.

(Oh, english is a second language for me so have som patience with my grammar and spelling)

Current financial state.
Debt;
2300$ to parents (down from 10k oct-16)
23000 loan on appartment (worth ~80k)

Assets;
2300$ on savingsacc

Income;
1400$ from my job
450$ from poker. (Average last 8months)

Spending: (some guessing involved)
600$ rent (inc 100$+ interest for loan)
100$ utility, internet etc.
35$ Home and child insurance
80$ dog (food and insurance)
100$ car
230$ payment to parents (minimum)
100$ spending on child
300$ food
150$ random crap.
60$ phone

Total 1745$ (very rough numbers)

As we can see, there is a lot to be done here!

August goals:
Track all spending.
200$ on food.
50$ on random crap.
Keep decluttering my home.

Ok so im playing poker, it is what it is.

Years until FI: infinite

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Re: ERE - poker edition

Post by Zanka » Wed Aug 02, 2017 8:35 am

Thanks both of you. I can get a bit dramatic at times but I think im getting somewhere with that 2nd part.

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Re: ERE - poker edition

Post by Jason » Wed Aug 02, 2017 9:16 am

No explanation needed. I make Norma Desmond look like a stoic. You'll probably have to google that reference if you care enough. Its probably not worth your time, considering all the things currently on your plate.

You can only start where you are. So keep at it. I'm not sure how the whole degenerate gambler thing is going to play into this. There's probably some European poster here who can work up an algorithm for that shit. In any event, baby steps.

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Re: ERE - poker edition

Post by Zanka » Wed Aug 02, 2017 10:50 am

Haha lol.

Yeah i think ill be able to reduce those numbers fairly easy in the beginning. First milestone would be to live on 1400 and thus be able to save all extra income.

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Post by Jason » Wed Aug 02, 2017 6:36 pm

I'm betting you can do it.

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Post by Zanka » Thu Aug 03, 2017 8:55 am

After reading a fair bit about about eating once a day im starting the WD as of today. Drank a cup of coffee this morning (will change to tea) and been drinking water during the day. It is 4pm and im feeling ok. Getting hungry tho :roll:

Also starting to plan my meals and shopping better.
Getting rid of the tv and home internet (got sufficent data on the phone).
Will try to repay parents by end of August, end of september at the latest.

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Re: ERE - poker edition

Post by wood » Fri Aug 04, 2017 2:14 am

Looks like you have hit the bottom so much so that you are making drastic life changes now for the better. Keep it up and good luck!

I would be interesting to hear your story on being a professional poker player. The ups and downs, how much you made etc.

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Post by Zanka » Fri Aug 04, 2017 8:51 am

Thank you! I Will get to the poker later this weekend.

I have done som calculations and realized I could mayby get my spending down to close to 1000/month in the future so that is going to be my longish term goal.

Poker earns me somwhere between 15-20$/h. But i need to be fairly rested and emotionaly balanced so i cant just grind it out. Aiming for 40-60h/ month.

Edit: poker is tax free

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Post by Jason » Fri Aug 04, 2017 12:21 pm

I would be interested in hearing about that as I have never heard of someone quantifying poker earnings in hourly wages.

It's not exactly a car jacker thinking out loud "Let me see, between pistol whipping that bitch in the parking lot, stealing her keys, getting away from the pigs in that high speed car chase, killing my partner, and paying off my ex cell mate at the chop shop, I made $16.33 per hour before FICA today" but it seems along those same lines.

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Re: ERE - poker edition

Post by C40 » Fri Aug 04, 2017 12:55 pm

dude, it's just poker

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Post by Jason » Fri Aug 04, 2017 1:24 pm

That's exactly what my beloved Nana said about Bingo before they kicked her out of assisted living for giving out lap dances in exchange for numbered ping pong balls.

So don't tell me it's just poker.

RIP Nana, we still cherish the good times

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Re: ERE - poker edition

Post by Zanka » Fri Aug 04, 2017 1:33 pm

Haha I like you Jason.
So you havent met any pro pokerplayers, thats fine.

Fyi I track every single hand I play (couple of millions over the years) so I have a decent grasp of what Im doing althou it might sound crazy to outsiders who know nothing about the game. 😏 Poker is a game about part numbers (math) and part people (psycology). Numbers is the easy part.

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Post by Jason » Fri Aug 04, 2017 1:49 pm

I used to play nickel and dime poker with a bunch of failed actors in NYC before the internet. I would buy Doritos and soda for everyone and say "If I lose up to $50 its just a night out." But not for them. After the game they would go to play illegal slot machines or head down to Atlantic City to the casinos. I'd blow my winnings on hand jobs in stair wells from women I prayed were actually women. Que sera.

I have a semi-earnest post somewhere about my fear of gambling. I have suffered through addiction all my life, but I thank God it was never gambling. I'd be dead.

I know you know what you're doing. I knew someone who subsidized their income when internet poker was around. I actually know someone who's son is playing professionally. It just makes me shudder when I hear stories about the losses people incur.

I like you too Zanka and because of that I wish you the best of luck in your child custody Buddha battling poker playing journey to financial independence.

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Re: ERE - poker edition

Post by Zanka » Sat Aug 05, 2017 5:15 am

So my (very old) car broke down yesterday, i dunno what the cost will be but it made me start pondering the possibility to live without a car. Daycare is walking distance from home and work is a 15min bikeride away. Relatives live very close. Thing would def get trickier and require a lot more planning on my part. And then there are the winter (-20C is a regularity).

Economicaly i would save;
100$ gas
20$ insurance
10$ tax
22$ parking
Total: 152$/month

Then adding repairs etc It easily gets up to 200$ on average.

The negative aspects of this would be a very limited day to day life, I enjoy cross country skiing during winter, hiking in the forest and visiting friends. I am not sure what I will end up deciding.

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Re: ERE - poker edition

Post by slowtraveler » Sun Aug 06, 2017 3:12 pm

Cool journal. Thanks for starting it. You've come to the right place to build up your net asset value. Poker sounds fun but it's a damn emotional roller coaster.

For your basic scenario, a bike works. Use chains in winter and you're good.

But I too love the forest, friends, and going farther than a bike. The cost of another old car is probably sub $2000 with a little work. If repairs>cost new old car, you could get a another car.

I know there are some here who find active volcanoes to roast marshmallows, forage all their food, and live on a fraction of others but this is your journey. YMOYL is a book that introduced me to a concept of weighing costs in hours. So you earn x/hour. In a month-how many hours worked and dollars earned? Subtract all commuting, tax, and work expenses from the dollars earned. Then add all the hours commuting, preparing, thinking about work and get your real $/hr earned.

Let's assume you get $10/hr when everything is done, is the car worth 15 hours of work per month to you? Is it worth 20?

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