Fox's Journey: And Onto the Sunlight!

Where are you and where are you going?
TopHatFox
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Yeah, agreed it is much easier. For the rest of us, it seems like it's either putting up with the corporate or tech world with whatever BA you got, or dealing with a plethora of less-than-stellar jobs in other industries. If you get tired of the latter, then getting an affordable State School Master's and hoping to land a job in the field is your best bet.

It's crazy to think that progressive credentialism keeps many of us in the education system until we're at least 25. I wish I had just gone to UF using my Dual Enrollment Associates from High School. After four years (now), I could've had my Master's. Awell, at least I got to taste what American privilege is like at the Ivy college for four years instead.

I think I've officially decided to go to grad school. I'm thinking an affordable yet high ranked State grad school with a degree that has solid prospects. There will be no debt here thank you very much.

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“Tech FI” is easier on multiple counts. Not only is the salary high, but being paid 2-3x median income makes it a lot easier to blend in with the rest of society. Techers can still have their house and their cars... live a normal lifestyle with normal means, and still manage a 50% or higher SR. A dual income household can achieve early FI while living a similar lifestyle as their high-income peers. It’s a twofer where there is no psychological challenge or stigma since one is not living below the median as with archetypical ERE, and spending is at a high enough level that frugal skills are completely optional.

Furthermore, tech jobs tend to be “not so bad” in terms of working conditions and the nature of the work itself. So, I just want to express my understanding and respect for those who don’t have this good fortune and need to grind it out at jobs that are either low-paying and/or uninteresting.

Hang in there THF. From my vantage point you are much too focused on FI/RE as a goal when it is best achieved as a side effect of a frugal, productive lifestyle. I realize you are eager to join the 6-figure NW club 8-) but try to be content with the progress you have already made. You have 6+ years of expenses saved up. It’s not FI, but with your spending efficiency it is solidly FU.

Rationally, I think you should be “feeling abundant” with your level of NW. But from personal experience, I think I can empathize. When I started out in 2014, MMM-FI (600k + paid off house) was my goal. When that happened in 2016, there was a remarkable and rather instantaneous switch from a feeling of financial scarcity to abundance. And even though I still can’t RE currently, I’m still mentally anchored to that 600k number and there hasn’t been any goal creep whatsoever. Of course, I’m still accumulating, and I continue to keep score. But in my mind and my heart, I have enough and I’m at peace. The whole point of this is, maybe once you reach your goal whether it is 100k or 3% SWR or whatever, your financial insecurities will go away.

Also +1 to @jennypenny’s suggestion of taking some risks and allowing yourself to make mistakes in your 20s. Don’t get caught up in trying to create the perfect ERE life. You won’t be judged for failing to achieve FI by 25 or even 30. Life satisfaction is the measure of success, not net worth or retirement.

Going to be blunt here, but I don’t really understand your strategy with grad school. As an outside observer, I don’t get the sense that you know yourself or the potential career/job market well enough to ensure it won’t be a complete waste of time/$$$. I hope you will prove me wrong.
TopHatFox wrote:
Sat Feb 17, 2018 2:01 am
I don't think I'll be going to a Columbia or NYU this time around since fin aid for grad school is much less.
If it were me, I would apply to prestige schools and do the master’s as a full-time student. If you work as a teaching or research assistant it’s not uncommon to get a tuition waiver + a stipend in the $25-30k+ range.(*) Or you can get a fellowship through programs such as the NSF or NDSEG. When I was in grad school I had money shoved at me from every which direction. Though it does help to study something which is in demand (hint, hint) :-P

(*) There’s a lot more synergy doing this than say, working a 40k full-time job to cashflow your part-time master’s degree. And if you can’t get paid to go to grad school, then maybe you should be doing something else instead?

Best of luck. Eagerly awaiting the next installment of “Fox news”.

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Consider yourself lucky that you don't have to figure out how to follow Captain Capitalist's advice for females at the age of 53. I can't decide how many hours/day I should devote to refurbishment of my #1 Money Maker- My Beauty vs. my #2 Money Maker- STEM degree. Too hard to calculate the likely marginal return on investment.

IOW, I feel your pain, bro.

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I wouldn't take everything a person says as gospel~

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fox news lol

brute would like to second the Master thing. are there clearly defined fields where a Master's degree will yield much higher income than a Bachelor's degree, when accounting for extra time not spent working?

why not a trade? welder, carpenter, electrician..

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You could probably already be FI if you invested in real estate, the leverage is insane.

You could also do a petroleum engineering masters with your geology background and start at 100k+

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THF doesn't really strike me as the guy who is willing to mess up the planet for money(?) However, geologists do work in environmental remediation.
BSc -> Field tech, Jr Scientist, ...

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As I recall, the generic advice we've been handing out for ERE is that if you have a college degree already, don't bother with an advanced degree for career purposes because cost/benefit usually isn't adequate. Just get a job to finish becoming FI and then you can think about an advanced degree.

Now THF has upset some of that advice by being able to bank some serious money while obtaining the bachelor's which might change the equation, but he should really weigh the cost/benefit before embarking on the advanced degree.

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jacob wrote:
Thu Feb 22, 2018 7:10 pm
THF doesn't really strike me as the guy who is willing to mess up the planet for money
what has the planet ever done for TopHatFox?

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Bad things with some good things sprinkled or muscled in : P

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The general rule of thumb is that advanced degrees are on someone else's dime. If you have to pay for it, then you are doing something wrong. THF has a degree from Amherst. He should be able to get an entry-level job based on that degree and get his employer to foot the bill for an advanced degree.

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Cool, here's what I'm going to do:

1. It's been about a month now. I've decided to move out of NY in a week or two and fly back once a month to complete surgery and orthodontic work over the next 8 months. My parents are happy to provide a place to stay in Miami as I'm applying to grad programs or jobs.

2. Do research on different relevant Masters Programs, including assistantships, internships, and more. Make sure there are good employment prospects afterward, and to maximize going to school debt free. I can take the geology route and get a Masters at the Colorado School of Mines, for example. I can also take the social route and get a Masters in education, public administration, or social work. With the former, I fear failure. I got straight B's and C's in Geology. With the latter, I have fear of not getting a job after graduation, or the job being awful.

3. Once I'm in the program, create a website documenting my classes, assistantship, and work experiences. I'll try my best to find and hold a relevant job for the 1-2 years in the program too.

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I got straight B's and C's
You’ll need something else to differentiate yourself from other applicants to get funding, e.g. good GRE scores, well-written application essays showcasing your talents and unique personality, relevant experience/publications, and/or connections with faculty. If you’re open-minded about going all the way, applying to a PhD program is also favorable for getting funding vs. applying for a terminal Master’s.

The other approach would be to continue bouncing around the job market until you find something that is suitable considering your personality and life goals. Then pursue a grad degree iff required for the career.

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Yeah, I hear you that my geology grades suck. But, my overall GPA is a 3.4, I have excellent recommendations from a few professors who I've now talked to for years, and I can write well. What I'm thinking will be best is finding a list of Masters I can complete in 1-2 years that not only have excellent job prospects on average (as in, even the low-end outcome is good), but that lead to work that I can sustainably do for a couple years. Then, I can pick one of these masters and find a good yet affordable graduate program for that degree. Since the degree is in demand, I can pick a few states I like and go practice the degree there. Fast forward a few years and fortified FI with a marketable skill to fall back on.
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I'm curious what made you choose to study geology. What did you have in mind when you graduated?

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https://www.amherst.edu/academiclife/departments

These were my options. The only other marketable degree on there is Computer Science, which I almost failed. : )

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I thought you just started a new job? Also—why do you have to come back to NY for the orthodontic surgery and work? I’m sure there are docs in Miami that do the same thing.

Just curious.

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I think the B’s and C’s in geology are a good indication that you should not pursue grad studies in that field. Not because you can’t force yourself to do it, but rather as an indication that this is not the area where you want to spend your life.

You had enough rigor/success in your undergrad to at least be getting “looks at the ball” in terms of the job market. You did a great job putting yourself in that position, with 60K savings to boot! I think most recent grads would kill for the types of employment opportunities you have been exposed to. (I know I would have!) I understand the jobs are not your desired positions or location, but that will sort itself out over the next couple of years.

Back in college, I majored in something highly non-marketable (what the Amherst list would refer to as “interdisciplinary studies”). I then pursued multiple grad degrees that were highly practical and somewhat technical - degrees of the type where people say “oh we will always need people trained in those skills” - and I was eventually able to be in a position by my mid- to late- 30’s to more or less “retire” . . .

But it would have been so much more efficient to just spend a couple years after undergrad pursing different opportunities, even with my ridiculous liberal arts major. I can force myself to do technical work, but like you, my heart wasn’t in it and I was much more interested in the human side of things. Eventually I succeeded professionally by gradually shifting my job into the human side of things.

Grad school is seductive - it provides a clear path/plan for those who are not sure what to do next - don’t fall for it!

My sense from following your journal is that you are highly competent in terms of being disciplined and following a system (such as ERE), but that you still lack what one of my former bosses referred to as “iterations” (repeat interactions with the real world). I think you should spend at least two years in the workforce before pursuing grad studies.

p.s. I think you should get a job at a college as an admissions counselor, student activities, student life, resident director, etc. seems like a perfect fit for what you’ve done in the past and what you like to do. Will give you enough income to live cheaply and achieve ERE, and may even provide free tuition for some sort of grad degree.

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@trailblazer - absolutely! I've started targeting those posts and got an interview as a program coordinator at Georgia State's World Affairs Council. It would pay 35K in a much better place, and a friend of mine works there already. I'm aiming for something like that and taking it from there! I'm filled with excitement in leaving NY for sunnier, happier, and less-expensive pastures. ~~~

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cool that would be a great fit

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