Lending a girlfriend money

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Campitor
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Re: Lending a girlfriend money

Post by Campitor »

I think the most relevant part of UK-with-kids post is this: "My point is that differently wired people can be very happy together, but you have to have a lot of difficult conversations over the years to get there."

The OP needs to have the difficult conversation 1st to see if he and his differently wired girlfriend have a future together - the cat is just the catalyst to this conversation.

The Old Man
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Re: Lending a girlfriend money

Post by The Old Man »

Campitor wrote:
Sun Nov 11, 2018 11:53 am
The OP needs to have the difficult conversation 1st to see if he and his differently wired girlfriend have a future together - the cat is just the catalyst to this conversation.
As has been stated by others the OP should not bring up the topic, but let the girlfriend broach the subject. The girlfriend may decide to resolve the issue on her own.

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