Smashter wrote: ↑Tue Feb 19, 2019 9:20 am
Whoa. Not to derail too much, but I am a millennial and I have never met anyone with that attitude. I've never even heard rumors of someone like that. Is artificial insemination + single motherhood a thing now?
Well, the oldest Millenials are around age 37, and there have been quite a few articles about chicks freezing their eggs and IVFing their way to single mommery, so it's plausible. I have a few links bookmarked that touch on it (google searches suggest that yes, it's a thing):
Link 1 We all will likely end up being more mediocre than we thought. This magical pool of super-boyfriends might never manifest. And at this rate, if and when they do, most of them will already be married.
I suppose what I’m acknowledging here is that I’m encroaching on “leftovers” territory. However, I would argue that the leftovers are not always crazy, but often are the women who refuse to subscribe to the Disney, faux happy ending, and who therefore lead more interesting and strange lives. So maybe I will end up settling to some degree. But in the meantime, I’ll just keep eating steak alone and RSVP’ing to orgies. Oh, and I should probably freeze my eggs."
Link 2 (audio) 13:48 "Maria's solution was to take time out. She gave herself a year off, and at the end of that year, just as she celebrated her 39th birthday, she made some pretty big decisions. She set off for Dubai, and she froze her eggs.
When my friend Amy hit that same fork in the road she made a very different decision, one that surprised herself and everyone around her. 'I found myself having a conversation with my best friend's mother where she asked me, sitting on the dock at the cottage in August, how was I going to feel if I turned 50 and I had let the window of having a child pass me by. And I got very angry at that question, and I knew enough then that that meant I needed to think about that. Four weeks later I found myself sitting in a fertility clinic waiting to have an appointment to discuss options to have a child on my own. And then a few months later I found myself 41 and pregnant. . .'
Link 3 "A dearth of marriagable men has left an “oversupply” of educated women taking desperate steps to preserve their fertility, experts say.
The first global study into egg freezing found that shortages of eligible men were the prime reason why women had attempted to take matters into their own hands. . . They said sweeping social changes meant that many professional women now struggled to find a partner that felt like an equal match.
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Her own survey of women doing “social” egg freezing found the overwhelming majority of women having their eggs frozen were doing so because they could not find a partner, or because their own partner would not commit."