Going back to work after you have retired? Any stories from those who have?

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I'm noticing a trend on FIRE Forums and others that there is a general going back to work movement in this post-COVID environment. I speculate a big part of that is the pent up lack of socialization with fellow human beings....Could also just be exacerbated financial concerns with the forever printing of money and potential rising inflation.

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@ Lemur
Yes, both of those apply to me.

(a) Lack of socialization due to Covid would get better in a few months, though socialization would be primarily family members in my case. I am at the stage in life when college friends have mostly drifted apart and I don't yet have friends via my kid's friends. I don't have any in-person socialization with other STEM minds which can be rewarding even if it's just tackling a work problem.

(b) Not just money printing but asset valuations suggesting around 0% real returns over the next decade (plus or minus a few percent) for the major asset classes is concerning. I believe I can do OK with a conservative approach that gets more aggressive as expected returns increase but bubbles can be maddening for a lot of investors and can cause a lot of doubt. If the 2020 fall was part of a more "normal" bear market that took over 6 months to play out (instead of 1) and ended with typical valuations (not even wishing for low valuations!) I would be a lot more comfortable with higher future expected returns. Rationally, I probably have enough money, but for whatever psychological reasons I find myself wanting more money and the pleasure that comes with a steady increase of account balances, which leads to...

@ jacob: Keep in mind that with a very high salary and 100%+ savings rate, each additional year of work now might be worth more like a million dollars or more at "real" retirement age if I can get it to compound well. Between now and then I'm sure I can further develop my plans for using that wealth.
Also, with additional income I will be more comfortable investing more aggressively in order to end up with a better SWR on my savings though with a bigger tail risk (combined risk of large portfolio drawdown at the same time as losing employment income). If I can get almost as much enjoyment from work as from a hobby (setting aside typical work annoyances) while earning the potential to make a million dollar impact in the world a few decades from now, that seems pretty appealing even if I were to take the lazy route and just give it all to a basket of charities.

(a) In the event that (in future generations) wealth inequality only gets worse and everyone who isn't wealthy and powerful has no choice but to work terrible gig jobs, live in a dorm, and get standard government supplied mass-produced food and goods... I would want to ensure that my kids' kids don't have to suffer that fate. I am picturing a world where eco destruction makes much of the world unlivable, causes collapse of some governments, etc. but the elites in USA still make life comfortable for themselves (living beyond carrying capacity if everyone did it) but forcing the 90-99% to live sustainably to offset, and with the chances of making it from the lower to upper class being about the same as the chances of winning the lottery. Think Marshall Brain's Manna (the USA part). I'm not saying I want my kids to be oppressors or to live inefficiently, but to have freedom and the power to at least try and change things for the better from within.

(b) In a few decades, my parents may need nursing care, and I hate nursing homes. In-home nursing care is one expensive and inefficient thing I could see myself wanting to pay for, rather than trying to care for them myself.

(c) Real estate (not REITs). It would be nice to have the means to pay cash for a property or two to have that diversification, especially if in the future rates are high and property prices are low!

(d) In my part of the country we have a big problem of forests being cleared for huge solar farms. In 2-3 decades there will be many of these cleared areas becoming decommissioned and they're not all going to be replaced with new panels. If I'm still living here, there is a huge one within walking distance, held on private land, that I could buy and turn into a food forest, eco village, whatever. Otherwise the town may want to buy it and turn it into an office park (which wouldn't have happened if it was residential forest land, but the clear cutting and solar is "paving the way" for them to try to develop it in the future).

(e) Simply giving money to people who desperately need it in the future. Not the type that squandered opportunities in order to land them in the poor house, but those who are in great need through no fault of their own. How many families of climate refugees who have absolutely nothing could I help set up to have a new stable life? Or if I feel like supporting nature instead of people, a few millions could conserve a not-insignificant amount of nature.

(f) A small portion being spent selfishly and inefficiently, for what normal folks call fun. Trips to the Caribbean and Disney and such. Buying whatever I want to eat at a restaurant rather than focusing on the cheaper items. Because I want to. My wife and kids would get more joy out of those types of things than me anyway, so if they want to do those kinds of things, I wouldn't want to stop them. If we spend say $30k per year vs. $25k per year that is hopefully a small difference compared to the aforementioned impacts we can make.

The planet may be dying and its people may be suffering, but not all at once. In the worst case scenarios (within my lifetime, not hundreds of years in the future) there will still be some oases and some people living freely and comfortably. Greater wealth can help create and maintain these little pockets of hope either selfishly or selflessly.

I'd be getting income mostly via government contracts. The work will get done with or without me with just minor changes in labor costs and profits from the contract. If I get back into it, I capture a piece of the pie that would otherwise go to other highly paid employees. Instead of more money likely going to Teslas and McMansions (or the financiers of such things), I can eventually flow that cash to nature and the needy. Seems like a good use of my skills.

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I'm a generational wealth guy.

After I returned to the US after a couple yeas abroad I worked for a couple years for an Armenian matriarch and her husband that had solidly established themselves and their family in the US after fleeing Beirut in the 80s. Of course husband and wife had ended up in Beirut because their parents had fled there (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Armenians_in_Lebanon) after surviving the Armenian Genocide. I didn't give much thought to the particular diasporan journey my boss and her family had endured when I was a 20-something-year-old who just assumed life in the US would just continue to get better for everyone (and who knows, it just might still); I just know I liked the family and liked working for them, as they were just really the most admirable and virtuous people. I think if anything I viewed their disasporan journey as now complete--"you've made it to the US; journey over!". But if I had to guess I bet that as much as they love and appreciate this country, they still have gold and various other assets (like expensive artwork) stashed in various places around the world, and they made sure they maintained disasporan networks all over the world.

As I'm older with kids of my own, and in a world that my crotchety old-man self views as quite different than the one I thought I'd lived in back when I was in my 20s, I can't help but being really impressed by how quickly my boss and her family were able to establish themselves in the US after fleeing Beirut, without a whole lot of disruption to their family, relatively speaking. Looking at them as a case study, they were likely able to do that because they had: (a) transferable professional and entrepreneurial skills; (b) a vast network of diasporan friends and family in the US; and (c) lots of money, which they'd no doubt smartly diversified in ways that diasporan populations have been doing for generations.

So, because of my experience with my old boss, and because of my knowledge of the very recent and even ongoing diasporan experiences of other populations--the Jewish people, of course, Christians in Iraq and Syria, among other places, Uyghurs in China, and the list goes on--e.g., Missouri's "Mormon Extermination Order" wasn't rescinded until 1976 (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mormon_Ex ... tion_Order)--I'm a generational wealth guy, with no plans on "retiring" so long as I'm physically able to be productive. That's not to say I'm going to be sitting in this office from 9-5 M-F 5 years from now. But I might; it just depends on where I think my time is most profitably spent, with an eye towards generating "profit" for the purpose of building generational wealth. And to the inflationary point made several places above, it may very well be the case that a salaryman paycheck might not be nearly as profitable in the coming years as managing productive assets like small asset-producing businesses or rental properties. But for now, my time is most profitably spent in my office job, building up ERE-type skills on the weekends and in the evenings.

To me ERE is about resilience; and I'm working towards generational resilience; family-focused ERE.

I'll add that although I see the earn-to-consume "system" as irrational, I don't see anything at all irrational at a personal, individual level about me spending my time in this office collecting a paycheck, so long as I don't spend that payecheck on stupid shit I don't need.

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ERE works for the planet if everybody did it, therefore it is the right thing to do. Jacob, Paul Wheaton, etc., should be seen as the highest role models.

Maximization of wealth accumulation and then applying it to the benefit of the planet & its people works because only a very small percent will ever attempt an ERE or permaculture based lifestyle. Therefore it is also the right thing to do. People like Bill Gates, or to a lesser extent the frugal teacher who saved millions and donated it all, should be seen as the highest role models.

In this way, minimizing working years is the right thing to do for some, and maximizing wealth is the right thing to do for others. Personality type and the size and status of family members, as well as current economic and environmental conditions, can sway which right thing to do is the right thing for you.

Other personality types may have other strategies that are perfect for them. An ERE or wealth maximization strategy may have zero appeal to an artist, but the photographs of Chris Jordan or the work of Wall-E CGI artists have surely influenced others to live more sustainably. Political and religious leaders have their own ways of doing things which many on this forum would likely not see as efficient solutions, yet these are still roles needed by society with the opportunity to use such powers for good (hopefully resulting in positive feedback loops).

Might there be a "web of lifestyle design strategies" across the dimension of personality types? Maybe not 16 distinct strategies for all 16 MBTIs, but at least several, of which ERE is one. As a web, they would be planned to coexist harmoniously.

Then there is the time dimension. People want different strategies at different ages and throughout different generations. FIRE desire probably peaks in someone's late 20s perhaps? There are also too many (?) FIRE believers in the past few years, but not enough in 1982 (major bond and stock valuation bottoms & precious metals had recently crashed too), etc. Finally, there is the dynamically changing needs of a family as generations age and new generations grow up - easy to plan for with healthy/wealthy/wise parents and 0-1 kids, but gets more tougher with bigger families and evolving needs. The planet's needs, in terms of urgency and appropriate technology, is changing pretty quickly too.

"Others" have too much resistance to ERE. Should there exist a meta-strategy to help non-ERE (non-INTx) types to come up with their own (versions of) strategies that, while perhaps less efficient, are more efficient than no strategy at all? Can ERE or something close to it be translated to the language of an ESFP for example?

Apologies if these ideas (should) have been discussed elsewhere.

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LOL @ overfed panhandlers pushing “deviant financial strategies” being exalted as highest role models

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That seems a little unnecessarily mean-spirited and personal, MI :(

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I have ERE'd from several careers and use the time off to enjoy hobbies, recalibrate, reskill and investigate new opportunities, never returning to previous positions or fields. I assume permanent ERE will only occur when new opportunities are not as interesting as the hobbies I (can) pursue as I age (which can be difficult to project due to health uncertainty and hobbies tend to do more damage to my body than being a keyboard warrior).

Having some form of FU money allows one to define and enforce any employment contract, which is not the case for wage income dependent people. One thing I've never shared is my ability to walk away from a position at any time, I assume co-worker/supervisor knowledge of this would not go over well as most are not in a similar situation.

Reading some of these posts reminds me of a book from Alain de Bottom. I assume most have read Status Anxiety, but he also wrote an interesting book The Art of Travel, where it almost sounds like one could replace "Travel" with "Retirement". One of the points of the book was that when one observes a picturesque landscape on a island with a beautiful couple frolicking in the sand, the one element missing in the picture is "You" who brings his/her health/relationship/money/career/etc. issues on the trip. This may be true of some ERE who have envisioned freedom from work as some utopia which will solve their personal issues. Besides work related stress issues, ERE doesn't solve any issues in my personal and observed experiences.

https://www.alaindebotton.com/status/
https://www.alaindebotton.com/travel/

Looking at his website, I also saw this title and wonder if anyone has an opinion of the book?
https://www.alaindebotton.com/work/

There is also the saying "Money doesn't solve a man's troubles, only changes them". A friend/colleague who made enough money for a 0.05 or lower SWR in his mid-30's and went from complaining about his dumb (boss/co-workers/clients/work related issues) to incompetent (contractors/concierge/rich person issues) something like "Why can't I find a good butler???" or "Can you believe I can only withdraw $30k a day from _____ bank!!!" the second was a real complaint he had. The rich person issues were just as real and stressful for him as the work related issues were pre-ERE. The free time awarded to him away from work did not bring much/any additional enjoyment. After a few years of frolicking on world beaches, he returned to his previous role, in a diminished manner.

For those that keep working for generational wealth, this is a delusion as few can achieve this level without MAJOR luck on their side. It is much better to instill a sense of self-reliance and frugality on future generations than accumulating assets which usually become worthless in less than 100 years (by design).

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What an interesting discussion.

I cut ties with Amazon after 11.5 years just over 5 months ago: a lot of what y'all write about rings true. However, as a recovering workaholic, I must question my judgment the way every former addict does: is that something I really want, or is that just an old ingrained habit trying to hijack my life once more?

I'm curious about - hypothetically - taking up random semi-volunteer or fun/unusual gigs where it's less about the money and more about the experience. I've never been a baker. I've never helped set up a concert. I've never worked on a movie set (as an extra or as a staffer). I've never worked on Alberta's oil fields. (That sounds like gruesome, incredibly boring work with 2 weeks on, 2 weeks off, but I'm curious what that'd be like.)

AFAIK, when the Exxon Valdez spill happened in 1989, just about everybody who could travel to the area got offered high hourly wages to help with the cleanup. What an interesting life experience that must have been!

My what-if daydreams are currently limited by my very primitive knowledge of French, seeing as I've moved to Quebec. :lol: That'll get better, though.

I like to think that I'll fare better than most of the back-to-work boomerangs, if only because of the 18 months of funemployment I had right after college. I spent those glorious 18 months just riding my bicycle around Reno, and doing some card-counting, and reselling used books and textbooks online (if I'd been smarter, I would've been able to turn that into an actual business... oh well haha), and even being a paid protester (that lady really hated her apartment complex!). Oh, and I also did some freelance interpreting work for the State Department. Those 3 weeks of interpreting for the visiting delegation of beekeepers from Uzbekistan were mighty fun. :)

My lean-FIRE life is pretty enjoyable so far, and I'm slowly but surely getting to enjoy all the hobbies I'd never had the time or the energy for. (Though my giant bag of art supplies and manuals still remains untouched.) I hope I never feel the urge to return to the office environment... Anything but that. O_o

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<finished studies, did stint at small company, lost a lot of health, "pursued other interests", looking for next step, interested in other people stories>

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I find it very hard to not scare off recruiters with the big hole in my resume. Only jobs I found after retiring were minimum wages and temporary, and I got them trough friends.

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Jean wrote:
Sun Mar 06, 2022 8:04 pm
I find it very hard to not scare off recruiters with the big hole in my resume. Only jobs I found after retiring were minimum wages and temporary, and I got them trough friends.
Professional jobs require a certain kind of corporate culture socialization - i.e. in a corporate/professional environment you communicate and act in a certain way that can only be learned by being immersed in such environment for some time. Normally, people pick it up in their first job right after university. In your case, I suspect companies are wary that you're older/wiser/more set in your ways that a college grad, and thus adapting may be hard for you. Not working for many years also suggests that you're some kind of nonconformist, which only strengthens this risk.

I don't know have a good idea on how to counter that though - easiest way would be getting in through a recommendation from a friend, but if you don't have any and recruiters are rejecting you, then most realistic route I see is either starting a small business in a "professional field", like a small web development agency, to prove that you can operate in a professional environment, or grind it out from the bottom in a low-wage field, i.e. start at a fast food chain place or real estate/insurance sales agency, become a manager there and then hop on to more exciting jobs. Neither of those paths is exactly quick or easy though. Alternatively, you could try pursuing what you've already done before, i.e. getting another degree. Investing a couple of years into a new degree could convince employers that you've changed and are now serious about setting up a career.

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@zbigbi, you're probably right, but i greatly underestimated this. I thought my degree was enough to prove my ability to make myself usefull.
My retired dad once asked is former boss to interview me. The interview went well, but he didn't hire me. He probably happily would have come to a camping trip with me, but not hire me.
Maybe i should take people camping.
Can i legally teach people how to dodge around camping bans?

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This isn't exactly 'going back to work after you have retired', but still might be worth sharing.

After working in big market research companies for shy of a year I went to the care sector and have been in it for over 6 year, 3 of them in mid-management.

Recently thinking about going back to corporate environment for some time, had a chat with a colleague from the times in market research. Got from it something that was on my mind anyway, namely that one potentially useful narrative could go along the lines of 'I wanted to have a more direct impact and get the feeling of making a difference in people's lives [which was true; you could insert something about a journey to personal discovery or something else that is hip these days], but now I feel ready to again pursue a corporate career because xyz'. It's not that he suggested it as a 'tactic' or anything, he just felt this is how it was for me and indeed it was.

So maybe try to think about your narrative in such positive terms and shape your story. When you have a positive story people will want to hang out with you and might hire you.

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