Jason, I do like your jokes. Many of them are funny. A significant portion of your posts are essentially you being an asshole. I have some asshole friends that I like being around, and sometimes I'm an asshole. I also have friends that are total sluts, felons, and so on. I love a good asshole line here and there. I like having you around.
A joke every now and then about doing cocaine off a stripper is not so horrible, but when that's your schtick, and when you go there so much that it seems that's all you're here to do, and especially when it seems like it's time to stop or move on to actual content but you just keep going, it gets old. You've had a lot of people here telling you that it's gotten old.
There is a balance needed between being fun/entertaining (jokes and such), and actually being beneficial to be around (advice, useful questions, sharing related experiences, etc.). If someone is all of the former and little/none of the later, and especially when they are trying too hard and don't know when to stop, they cross over into 'not so fun to be around' territory. From the perspective of folks over at the PC table, and also from my own, it seems like your "other table" conversation is just a long string of trying to be funny. Sure, there are some lessons in there if one listens long enough, but it seems like there ain't much.
And yes, however much you might not like hearing it, the place for folks whose schtick is gutter jokes about cocaine, whores, and revenge porn IS 4chan. Or, AFAIK, that's the closest place. It's generally much younger guys there. Most folks mature past their 'whore jokes' phase. I know that you have more in you than jokes.
I feel like this post is harsh. I'm not saying you should go away, or that you need act like a square. But people are telling you they're tired of your shit, and you seem to keep going back to the well of "it's a joke, bro, relax" and "you squares would be boring without my whore jokes".
So, I'm suggesting (that for your posts here) you get better at recognizing where you are and making adjustments on the scale of:
[Asshole that is funny but gets old to be around after a while]
[Asshole that is funny and also has some tact, good advice, etc.]
(I'm pretty sure you get what I mean already, but, my context of "asshole" here is more of a description of the tone/nature of your posts and jokes, and not a character judgement of you. Because your posts are mostly jokes, I feel like I don't really know you)
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