Gift-giving
Posted: Fri Dec 29, 2017 3:56 pm
Given the time of year, I thought I might start a discussion on gift giving.
It's something I've been trying to give more careful thought and planning to, as I find it one of those things in life I struggle with.
Keen to hear anyone else's thoughts & ideas on this subject.
It's something I've been trying to give more careful thought and planning to, as I find it one of those things in life I struggle with.
- The occasions (e.g. holidays) seem to come up suddenly, before I've properly decided what to get people
- This, in turn, causes me to panic and either A) get nothing, B) get the wrong things, C) and/or spend way too much time or money.
- In a page in my notebook, keep track of people I'm close to and what gifts (if any) to buy them. That way, when the occasion comes up (e.g. Christmas, birthday, etc) I have a kind of "go to" of what they might like.
- Each time I meet loved ones, try to notice anything that comes up in conversation that reveals what a good gift might look like for them. (Could be anything from an in-joke between us, to a favourite band, to a career goal.) Incorporate this into the notebook.
- Set a digital reminder a couple of months before Christmas, birthdays, etc, to buy the gifts ahead of time. This means they can be bought online or elsewhere at a much cheaper price!
- D.I.Y. gifts. One such gift I did was a fake DVD case and cover. Bought the case for about $2, spent about 1 hour designing the cover in Google Draw, then printed it for about $2. It was based around an in-joke with someone very close to me, and she absolutely loved it.
- Food / perishable gifts. For people I know who are minimalists and don't want more clutter.
- No gifts. I'm going to make a point of telling everyone I know that I don't expect or want gifts. I prefer to live minimally and purchase things myself. Also, many of the folks I know really don't want anything. Just company matters to them.
Keen to hear anyone else's thoughts & ideas on this subject.