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by EMJ
Mon Nov 20, 2017 9:33 am
Forum: Lifestyle Questions
Topic: Combining ERE with masculine energy
Replies: 43
Views: 6869

Re: Combining ERE with masculine energy

As a woman I wouldn't be interested dating anyone who says women are emotional beings. While the following would all be perfectly fine with me. - Having no car - Wearing 2nd hand clothes with or without regard to fashion - Lacking ambition in current job or life in general - Being skimpy with money ...
by EMJ
Mon Nov 13, 2017 12:43 pm
Forum: Politics, and other eternal disagreements
Topic: sexual misconduct
Replies: 262
Views: 33864

Re: sexual misconduct

I hope Jacob will respond to @ sl-owl-orris
If showing cleavage is presenting assets, then living in warmer climates must be a hell for women. Being comfortable and not overheating by wearing layers of clothes may put women in danger.
Where do you cross the line?
by EMJ
Thu Nov 02, 2017 8:40 am
Forum: Politics, and other eternal disagreements
Topic: What aspects of today's society will we be ashamed of in sixty years?
Replies: 147
Views: 23449

Re: What aspects of today's society will we be ashamed of in sixty years?

In a situation such as the nuns in Tuam, a question is: why did no one say anything? Easy to think that each of us would speak up if we knew. But would we, would you? An interesting discussion on whistle-blowing to think about in this and other contexts: But if you are thinking of leaking, should yo...
by EMJ
Wed Oct 25, 2017 12:05 pm
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: Halfmoon's journal
Replies: 554
Views: 86494

Re: Halfmoon's journal

Great trees! It must be so satisfying to see them grow.
There's a lot to be said for long-term commitment to a project.
by EMJ
Wed Oct 18, 2017 1:29 am
Forum: Politics, and other eternal disagreements
Topic: US Politicking
Replies: 80
Views: 14546

Re: US Politicking

I too find your commentary interesting with a perspective that I don't hear anywhere else. Please keep these up!
by EMJ
Sun Oct 15, 2017 2:25 am
Forum: Friends & Family Questions
Topic: Ending Relationships with Persistent Humans
Replies: 22
Views: 5052

Re: Ending Relationships with Persistent Humans

This: a harsh rejection or period of no contact that one side actually enforces no matter what the other party says.

Otherwise you are everyone up for more or less painful, drawn out endings.
by EMJ
Fri Sep 22, 2017 2:36 pm
Forum: Resources & Recommended Reading
Topic: Myers-Briggs Pseudoscience?
Replies: 38
Views: 10839

Re: Myers-Briggs Pseudoscience?

Uncovering The Secret History Of Myers-Briggs "To obtain a hard copy of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI®), the most popular personality test in the world, one must first spend $1,695 on a week-long certification program run by the Myers & Briggs Foundation of Gainesville, Florida. This year al...
by EMJ
Sun Sep 17, 2017 10:59 am
Forum: Transportation Questions
Topic: Rapidly Changing Automotive Technology
Replies: 22
Views: 4704

Re: Rapidly Changing Automotive Technology

Worth listening to We're racing down the highway to autonomous cars, whether it takes 10, 20 or 30 years. But what happens to our economy, the shape of our cities, and even our century-old car-centric culture once the vehicles arrive? http://www.cbc.ca/radio/ideas/autonomy-the-unexpected-implication...
by EMJ
Sun Aug 20, 2017 1:19 am
Forum: Lifestyle Questions
Topic: Lost wallet - what to do now?
Replies: 10
Views: 1355

Re: Lost wallet - what to do now?

Don't keep all valuables - keys, cards- in the same place.
by EMJ
Fri Aug 18, 2017 12:47 pm
Forum: Lifestyle Questions
Topic: Does one owe it to their parents to take care of them in old age?
Replies: 137
Views: 25249

Re: Does one owe it to their parents to take care of them in old age?

Sorry to hear that you are going through such difficulties. I hope your mother isn't suffering. Watching someone close slowly lose their mind is is a very challenging. Take care of yourself. I am in a similar situation (dementia, sibling who doesn't contribute) but thanks to Scandinavian health care...
by EMJ
Wed Jul 19, 2017 2:01 am
Forum: Skills & Tools Questions
Topic: Sponsoring spouse to immigrate: use lawyer or DIY?
Replies: 2
Views: 667

Re: Sponsoring spouse to immigrate: use lawyer or DIY?

I sponsored my spouse 12 years ago from Europe to Canada, no lawyer. Read everything about entry requirements. When we did this you had to start the process abroad and declare your intention at the border. Dr exams were lost, no way to contact immigration. While we waited my spouse couldn't work, no...
by EMJ
Fri Jun 23, 2017 2:17 am
Forum: Transportation Questions
Topic: Tips for driving on the highway with a cargo van?
Replies: 17
Views: 4574

Re: Tips for driving on the highway with a cargo van?

Bring a navigator.
Frequent stops.
Drive it around the block a few times to get a feel for the vehicle. You want to be sure of yourself at 55 mph.
by EMJ
Thu May 11, 2017 12:16 am
Forum: Work & Education
Topic: Oxford versus Karolinska
Replies: 38
Views: 8352

Re: Oxford versus Karolinska

you can always get a six month lease i
No- unless you are willing to pay lots, or find someone who is willing to rent you a room. The rental housing market in Stockholm is broken.
by EMJ
Thu Mar 30, 2017 2:55 am
Forum: Politics, and other eternal disagreements
Topic: Who'd a thunk it? Obamacare not repealed
Replies: 303
Views: 39005

Re: Who'd a thunk it? Obamacare not repealed

Healthy youngish people get expensive to treat diseases that aren't self caused/ lifestyle diseases. i.e. autoimmune diseases, cancer (only about 40 percent is caused by environment, external stuff they say). Don't think it can't happen to you, kids New Study Finds That Most Cancer Mutations are Du...
by EMJ
Sun Mar 12, 2017 2:36 am
Forum: Politics, and other eternal disagreements
Topic: Why are men more violent
Replies: 22
Views: 4543

Re: Why are men more violent

Domestic abuse of men justs gets underreported
fiby41 - This is a radical claim. Can you back it up?
by EMJ
Sat Mar 11, 2017 11:51 am
Forum: Politics, and other eternal disagreements
Topic: Why are men more violent
Replies: 22
Views: 4543

Re: Why are men more violent

Seems inherent to most larger mammals where males are wired/adapted to fight with each other over control of resources and/or reproductive privileges. Except that's not how it always works. From wikipedia on Dominance hierarchy: As expected, the individual who emerges triumphant is rewarded with th...
by EMJ
Wed Mar 08, 2017 11:54 am
Forum: Resources & Recommended Reading
Topic: ERE Gift Registry, Second-Hand, Homemade & Time Gifts
Replies: 4
Views: 1661

Re: ERE Gift Registry, Second-Hand, Homemade & Time Gifts

jacob wrote:yardsailing.
yardsailing = new ere sport!
by EMJ
Tue Feb 28, 2017 8:46 am
Forum: Politics, and other eternal disagreements
Topic: Humans and the Environment
Replies: 82
Views: 12861

Re: Humans and the Environment

Shell's 1991 warning: climate changing ‘at faster rate than at any time since end of ice age’

https://www.theguardian.com/environment ... nd-ice-age