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- Fri May 17, 2024 7:03 am
- Forum: ERE Journals
- Topic: dull numbers journal
- Replies: 201
- Views: 63284
Re: dull numbers journal
Nice, you guys sound like a really solid team. Rooting for you!
- Thu May 16, 2024 11:28 pm
- Forum: ERE Journals
- Topic: A Journey of Mindfulness--the Remaking of Life in Midstream.
- Replies: 1421
- Views: 310251
Re: A Journey of Mindfulness--the Remaking of Life in Midstream.
I'm guessing the first steps would very much depend on what one already does re: health
- Thu May 16, 2024 4:47 am
- Forum: ERE Journals
- Topic: CalamityJane's Journal
- Replies: 81
- Views: 11746
Re: CalamityJane's Journal
What a wonderful, peaceful place.
Observing is good, if only to see where the water tends to go and so forth
Observing is good, if only to see where the water tends to go and so forth
- Tue May 14, 2024 7:07 pm
- Forum: ERE Journals
- Topic: Small and winding road to freedom
- Replies: 87
- Views: 18133
Re: Small and winding road to freedom
And of world war two soldiers, for some reason -- who are on pictures raising or taking down or whatever the flag over berlin with 6 watches from dead bodies on their arms
- Tue May 14, 2024 7:15 am
- Forum: Philosophy and Lifestyle Questions
- Topic: Polyamory Support Group
- Replies: 365
- Views: 97798
Re: Polyamory Support Group
what needs you think a romantic relationship meets? I may be a tad ace-ier than the norm so a close friendship would do it for me, too, but imo a romantic relationship is often about the hope that "maybe this time, finally..." I think most people are hiding from themselves what they're tr...
- Tue May 14, 2024 6:44 am
- Forum: ERE Journals
- Topic: The Education of Axel Heyst
- Replies: 2085
- Views: 358115
Re: The Education of Axel Heyst
102. cheers/
- Sun May 12, 2024 11:10 pm
- Forum: ERE Journals
- Topic: Damn it Feels Good to be a Gangsta
- Replies: 685
- Views: 181257
Re: Damn it Feels Good to be a Gangsta
I own to many things as a physical projection of my own fear that I am not worthy of being loved and will therefore not be cared for. ooooof did you have to call me out like that Minimalism is a response to abundance. Idk if it's abundance or if it's realizing that trying to meet psychological need...
- Sat May 11, 2024 3:58 am
- Forum: ERE Journals
- Topic: Damn it Feels Good to be a Gangsta
- Replies: 685
- Views: 181257
Re: Damn it Feels Good to be a Gangsta
@thef0x, this is not a complete answer, but the assumption I would like to challenge is that maintenance is necessarily a hassle. How can we make it so it isn't? - Own fewer things, always keeping inventory lower than your storage capacity as per the organization for people with adhd book Scott 2 re...
- Fri May 10, 2024 9:45 pm
- Forum: ERE Journals
- Topic: Damn it Feels Good to be a Gangsta
- Replies: 685
- Views: 181257
Re: Damn it Feels Good to be a Gangsta
thef0x quoting the above post made me think: it has become the consumer experience to ever reduce any individual's need for storage and organization. The tv shows are "on Amazon/on Netflix" - someone else stores and organizes, you retrieve from the overall storage on demand. Books are &quo...
- Fri May 10, 2024 9:27 pm
- Forum: ERE Journals
- Topic: What I Spend
- Replies: 918
- Views: 202837
Re: What I Spend
I appreciate the book recs too. Thanks
- Fri May 10, 2024 7:05 am
- Forum: ERE Journals
- Topic: dull numbers journal
- Replies: 201
- Views: 63284
Re: dull numbers journal
Yup, what you're saying about how your parents will react checks out. In my corner of post-socialist bumfuck nowhere land, we have a saying that goes, "On someone else's back, 100 lashes seem too few." Right now, the lashes are on your back. The benefit is on theirs -- they get to look goo...
- Fri May 10, 2024 6:59 am
- Forum: ERE Journals
- Topic: Veronica's Journal of Madness
- Replies: 85
- Views: 19542
Re: Veronica's Journal of Madness
Excellent suggestion to get your company to pay for those.
Good job kicking ass, your last post is sounding great.
Good job kicking ass, your last post is sounding great.
- Fri May 10, 2024 6:55 am
- Forum: ERE Journals
- Topic: Loutfard's journal
- Replies: 145
- Views: 16622
Re: Loutfard's journal
Seems like the things they pointed out are all the communication/interviewing/people skills part -- to me the feedback you shared sounded like they thought you were technically fine, but another candidate came across more personable. So you're right, interviewing training -- coming across as persona...
- Fri May 10, 2024 6:44 am
- Forum: ERE Journals
- Topic: Embracing Solitude: INTJ's Journey Towards Retirement
- Replies: 247
- Views: 95223
Re: Embracing Solitude: INTJ's Journey Towards Retirement
So here's a weird suggestion about the loneliness: at home, when you are at peace, lie down somewhere calm-inducing (dim light if you like it, weighted blanket if you have one and enjoy it, etc, just enjoy), put on a timer for 15 min, and then attempt the following: call up the state you wish your b...
- Fri May 10, 2024 12:04 am
- Forum: ERE Journals
- Topic: What I Spend
- Replies: 918
- Views: 202837
Re: What I Spend
Good luck with this new start, fingers crossed it'll work out well and you'll be fulfilled. About whether what you're doing to support your neurodivergence is or isn't ERE, imo it's important to remember ERE doesn't mean "minimize everything to the greatest extreme you're available", it me...
- Thu May 09, 2024 11:26 pm
- Forum: Friends, Family, Relationships, and Community Questions
- Topic: What do you do for work?
- Replies: 22
- Views: 1131
Re: What do you do for work?
"I'm unemployed but I used to XYZ" worked for me when I was off for Covid when it came to casual acquantances. This allows people to feel comfortably superior to you, checks out with the behaviors they observe (second hand clothes, etc.), and because it is a negative topic, it's a topic ot...
- Thu May 09, 2024 8:14 pm
- Forum: ERE Journals
- Topic: Just Gravy
- Replies: 324
- Views: 93253
Re: Just Gravy
As someone without children but who has been burned out to all fuck, taking 2 weeks off won't be enough. You'll just be dragging it on. Quit for an extended period and except the delay, then reevaluate, or spend 30 min every night feeling yourself healed by a white light that meanders round your bod...
- Thu May 09, 2024 8:00 pm
- Forum: ERE Journals
- Topic: Fingeek's Journal
- Replies: 157
- Views: 45094
Re: Fingeek's Journal
Separating "work" from one's identity is plenty interesting, I for one would be very interested to read your thoughts and experiences around that
Good work on selecting and achieving a target, and solving money as a problem. Congratulations on accomplishing this stage!
Good work on selecting and achieving a target, and solving money as a problem. Congratulations on accomplishing this stage!
- Tue May 07, 2024 6:01 am
- Forum: Philosophy and Lifestyle Questions
- Topic: Actualization!- Level 7 towards level 8
- Replies: 41
- Views: 2542
Re: Actualization!- Level 7 towards level 8
The "optimization" needs to be intuitive, i.e., you need to know what you want (WL7->WL8). Fuck! Would you (as in, the plural you), argue this is counterproductive at earlier levels? I'm sloshing around WL 4-ish doing "intuitive optimization:" low on spreadsheets and tracking, h...
- Mon May 06, 2024 11:09 pm
- Forum: Money and Investment Questions
- Topic: Expense Ratio and Annual Return
- Replies: 5
- Views: 434
Re: Expense Ratio and Annual Return
Try bogleheads.org as well - it seems to me they are the people who will be able to advise you best.