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by 7Wannabe5
Tue May 11, 2021 3:29 pm
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles
Replies: 121
Views: 4984

Re: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles

I apologize too. I will happily erase all my entries if you like.
by 7Wannabe5
Tue May 11, 2021 3:05 pm
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles
Replies: 121
Views: 4984

Re: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles

but here, and speaking of gender roles, you realize that if you were posting as a straight dude, with these kinds of stories, you might have been told long ago "man, stop making everything about your dick", yes? :lol: Yup. I know my tendency towards hyper sexuality would be much less acce...
by 7Wannabe5
Tue May 11, 2021 1:35 pm
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles
Replies: 121
Views: 4984

Re: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles

OTOH, although I am generally quite open-minded and exploratory sexually, it might just be the case that I am in fact currently stranded in relationship with a grouchy bisexual man who does not find me particularly attractive, so my memories of drunk fucking a cheerful guy who looked like Hutch in t...
by 7Wannabe5
Tue May 11, 2021 12:37 pm
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles
Replies: 121
Views: 4984

Re: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles

@Alphaville: I agree in theory. In practice, I still think that if I want a boy to come out and play, I am 81% more likely to get laid if I describe the game as The Bunny and The Wolf vs. The Wolf and The Monkey With a Tiny Stick. IOW, trying to take the initiative with my clitoral energy is rarely ...
by 7Wannabe5
Tue May 11, 2021 10:46 am
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles
Replies: 121
Views: 4984

Re: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles

there are also other lives and cultures and experiences that aren't yours. we can't derive a universal theory of gender from your particular michigan boomer experience. i mean cmon... a little agnosticism goes a long way. there is no shame in admitting ignorance or having reached the limits of the ...
by 7Wannabe5
Tue May 11, 2021 9:37 am
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles
Replies: 121
Views: 4984

Re: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles

there are sex differences and there are gender differences, and the inability to tell one thing from the other makes for a terrible theory. I strongly agree, but that’s no excuse for not trying to puzzle out the difference between these differences. My upbringing was reasonably gender neutral, prob...
by 7Wannabe5
Tue May 11, 2021 8:09 am
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles
Replies: 121
Views: 4984

Re: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles

@white belt: If anything I have done way too much internet dating. I know how men often prefer things to go, but I don’t go along with it. Some women do. I wouldn’t agree to meet some strange man in the middle of the night in his garage to buy a bicycle, so why would I do it for sex? It’s SOP for ma...
by 7Wannabe5
Tue May 11, 2021 7:08 am
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles
Replies: 121
Views: 4984

Re: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles

I liked the show, but I can’t really remember his standup routine. I never found him very attractive as a man. Fastidiousness turns me off. I’ve been told that my personality type is kind of like Kramer :lol: Obviously, relationships between men and women are about a great deal more than fucking. No...
by 7Wannabe5
Tue May 11, 2021 6:34 am
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles
Replies: 121
Views: 4984

Re: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles

@Alphaville: Everything is on a spectrum, but I feel like I understand and empathize much better with men through accepting that there are some innate differences. It has also been my experience that when I behave in alignment with acceptance of theses differences, my interactions are better. OTOH, ...
by 7Wannabe5
Tue May 11, 2021 6:02 am
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles
Replies: 121
Views: 4984

Re: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles

ETA: Another example of what I am trying to convey is that in a previous entry to this journal, ellarose described a couple of men she dated exactly in the sort of way that another woman would comprehend. In fact, when I read her descriptions, I laughed and thought “Yeah, I’ve kind of dated that one...
by 7Wannabe5
Tue May 11, 2021 5:29 am
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles
Replies: 121
Views: 4984

Re: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles

Self-deprecating old lady humor aside, I would note that I am not just distinguishing between solicited and unsolicited. MMF threesomes are fairly popular within the context of polyamory and the manner in which one of my male partners would choose to “shop” for a male third and also the method by wh...
by 7Wannabe5
Mon May 10, 2021 6:48 pm
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles
Replies: 121
Views: 4984

Re: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles

Yeah, in the olden days when some cars still had bench seats, first introductions were usually tactile and constrained behind tight layer of worn denim and zipper. Also, I can’t get used to how small stuff looks on my phone screen.
by 7Wannabe5
Mon May 10, 2021 5:13 pm
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles
Replies: 121
Views: 4984

Re: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles

Yeah, I didn’t phrase that well. I didn’t mean that the focus should on what men do or don’t consider “important.” I meant it seems to me that it’s a bit of a miscalculated projection, not unlike when men think women would like to see photos of their junk.
by 7Wannabe5
Mon May 10, 2021 4:25 pm
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles
Replies: 121
Views: 4984

Re: The Road Goes on Forever--Sometimes in Circles

We all have our varying experiences, but I don’t grok the focus on fashion as being terribly important issue of feminism, because many or most men are almost tone deaf to fashion. Also, it has been my experience that wearing the same pair of overalls every day and no makeup in no way exempts you fro...
by 7Wannabe5
Sun May 09, 2021 6:49 am
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: 7Wannabe5- Take 7- The Money Dimple
Replies: 283
Views: 19019

Re: 7Wannabe5- Take 7- The Money Dimple

@Toska2: I agree that there are many possible motivations. It is likely just reflective of my nature and recent reading list that I jump to “sex” or “energy politics.” :lol: @Alphaville: Actually, the spirit animal for my adult masculine energy would be The Snowy Owl, so much more iconic of book sal...
by 7Wannabe5
Fri May 07, 2021 12:42 pm
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: 7Wannabe5- Take 7- The Money Dimple
Replies: 283
Views: 19019

Re: 7Wannabe5- Take 7- The Money Dimple

@Dream of Freedom: I have had quite a few friendly conversations with him inclusive of topic of where property line for mowing should be. I thought we agreed that he would do around four feet off his driveway beyond fence line. That’s part of the reason why his behavior is confusing to me. I was the...
by 7Wannabe5
Fri May 07, 2021 11:57 am
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: 7Wannabe5- Take 7- The Money Dimple
Replies: 283
Views: 19019

Re: 7Wannabe5- Take 7- The Money Dimple

@white belt: A great deal of it is gender based, but my personal demeanor and use of slower, less powerful tools are also factors. I was actually trying to picture the behavior of a lone female attempting physical task or project that would provoke different response and it occurred to me that my si...
by 7Wannabe5
Fri May 07, 2021 7:22 am
Forum: Money Questions
Topic: Green Tech Future Revival?
Replies: 30
Views: 1216

Re: Green Tech Future Revival?

Yup, the weight of man made stuff on the planet is now greater than the entire biomass including bacteria! https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/human-made-materials-now-weigh-more-all-life-earth-combined-180976522/ Unfortunately, I think we need to accept the fact that Nature is a dead concept ...
by 7Wannabe5
Fri May 07, 2021 5:57 am
Forum: Money Questions
Topic: Green Tech Future Revival?
Replies: 30
Views: 1216

Re: Green Tech Future Revival?

It can also be acquire and show off skills. I would date older version of Primitive Technology guy. Of course, I am also somewhat envious of the reported lost woman they recently found living by herself in a tent in off-season wilderness park, so MMV.
by 7Wannabe5
Fri May 07, 2021 5:47 am
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: 7Wannabe5- Take 7- The Money Dimple
Replies: 283
Views: 19019

Re: 7Wannabe5- Take 7- The Money Dimple

@Toska2: Highly likely it was something like you suggest combined with good neighbor gesture. Good neighbor network is of more value to me than strict boundary maintenance, so will note event as positive in my permaculture observation notebook. However, the main point I was attempting to make is tha...