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by 7Wannabe5
Wed May 01, 2024 8:29 am
Forum: Philosophy and Lifestyle Questions
Topic: The ERE Wheaton Scale
Replies: 517
Views: 146888

Re: The ERE Wheaton Scale

I think Keynes' essay may also hint at why some would choose "work 15 hours/week" semi-ERE over FI-ERE. In an individualist model, some (points finger to Teletubby-esque self- the episode entitled "Laa-Laa has Muddy Feet from the Muddy Puddle" perhaps most representative of an ab...
by 7Wannabe5
Wed May 01, 2024 7:08 am
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: Embracing Solitude: INTJ's Journey Towards Retirement
Replies: 231
Views: 93377

Re: Embracing Solitude: INTJ's Journey Towards Retirement

dishonesty is a deal-breaker for me
That's because you've never been in a relationship with somebody who claimed to practice "radical" or "total" honesty. :lol:
by 7Wannabe5
Wed May 01, 2024 6:44 am
Forum: Philosophy and Lifestyle Questions
Topic: The ERE Wheaton Scale
Replies: 517
Views: 146888

Re: The ERE Wheaton Scale

Keynes prediction complete to highest Wheaton levels. He wrote the piece in 1930 (depression era) looking forward 100 years (about now!) I think it's rather remarkable how he spells out many of the problems encountered on this forum. The strenuous purposeful money-makers may carry all of us along wi...
by 7Wannabe5
Tue Apr 30, 2024 9:01 am
Forum: Philosophy and Lifestyle Questions
Topic: The ERE Wheaton Scale
Replies: 517
Views: 146888

Re: The ERE Wheaton Scale

Even if you run your own tiny business, like I used to with my book business, in order to support your very frugal lifestyle, you will still have to face the reality of turning a profit in order to survive and the ethical issues associated with this. Since my business partner was a primary Fi, stron...
by 7Wannabe5
Mon Apr 29, 2024 9:23 am
Forum: Philosophy and Lifestyle Questions
Topic: The ERE Wheaton Scale
Replies: 517
Views: 146888

Re: The ERE Wheaton Scale

"welfare should not be exclusively thought of as a tax-funded government-provided service." Yes, I agree, but this constitutes a default to Level Blue unless/until welfare issues are integrated into systems design at Level Yellow/Turquoise. IOW, if welfare is not a tax-funded government p...
by 7Wannabe5
Mon Apr 29, 2024 9:04 am
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: The Education of Axel Heyst
Replies: 2054
Views: 353168

Re: The Education of Axel Heyst

@Ego: Serious lack of situational awareness (extreme lack of Se) is what I suffer from which is exactly why I too frequently find myself in relationship with overly assertive basketball player types or taking the wrong exit on the expressway or the hapless victim of practical jokes. It has little to...
by 7Wannabe5
Mon Apr 29, 2024 7:22 am
Forum: Philosophy and Lifestyle Questions
Topic: The ERE Wheaton Scale
Replies: 517
Views: 146888

Re: The ERE Wheaton Scale

I would suggest that saving/hoarding/stock-piling enough of anything towards the ability to be/feel magnanimous is psychologically heterotelic, because in order to do/feel the first you must be future-oriented and in order to do/feel the second you must be present oriented. The future holds infinite...
by 7Wannabe5
Sun Apr 28, 2024 11:44 am
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: The Education of Axel Heyst
Replies: 2054
Views: 353168

Re: The Education of Axel Heyst

Sometimes nature provides you with a mask. I have close to zero S on the S/N spectrum and I'm quite solidly P as opposed to J, but my tertiary Fe is developed enough relative to my secondary Ti that I can generally pass as "nice woman" or even "dumb blonde", because many/most nor...
by 7Wannabe5
Sun Apr 28, 2024 9:19 am
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: The Education of Axel Heyst
Replies: 2054
Views: 353168

Re: The Education of Axel Heyst

In the Enneagram Model, the XXXX is the highest functioning, not the normal. I believe this represents a pre/trans issue. As Kegan suggests in his description of intimate relationships at higher levels of functioning, once a human becomes self-aware of their innate tendencies, they comprehend that t...
by 7Wannabe5
Sun Apr 28, 2024 9:03 am
Forum: ERE Book/Blog/Forum
Topic: Positive and negative goals in a WOG
Replies: 14
Views: 769

Re: Positive and negative goals in a WOG

Was this a summons? I know nothing of anti-memes. Maybe not, but you know of your own path to ERE as somebody who likely identifies as a people-person. I identify primarily as an idea-person, particularly a book-person, so I can directly trace my path to ERE through books I previously read which al...
by 7Wannabe5
Sun Apr 28, 2024 7:58 am
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: The Education of Axel Heyst
Replies: 2054
Views: 353168

Re: The Education of Axel Heyst

Even Browne later changes his mind on that one. Yeah, in the handicapped version of finally engaging adult feminine (caring) energy where he takes on the enormous social task of caring for an attractive, fully competent younger wife* who is supportive of his purpose to the extent that she is helpin...
by 7Wannabe5
Sat Apr 27, 2024 1:53 pm
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: The Education of Axel Heyst
Replies: 2054
Views: 353168

Re: The Education of Axel Heyst

I think your IQ is likely high enough to place you in the cuckoo-bananas tribe on that alone. However, as the book on Creativity that Jacob recommended elsewhere affirms, the earliest research on the topic of creativity revealed pretty high correlation between high IQ and various flavors of cuckoo-b...
by 7Wannabe5
Sat Apr 27, 2024 1:32 pm
Forum: ERE Book/Blog/Forum
Topic: Positive and negative goals in a WOG
Replies: 14
Views: 769

Re: Positive and negative goals in a WOG

The WOG method is just a way to get people out of the "optimized box"-thinking that dominates WL4--WL6 and into the systems-thinking of WL7-8...Self-consistency (walking the talk) is king when it comes to INTJ morality Gotcha. I think, for better or worse, eNTPs are too impulsive to ever ...
by 7Wannabe5
Sat Apr 27, 2024 9:29 am
Forum: ERE Book/Blog/Forum
Topic: Positive and negative goals in a WOG
Replies: 14
Views: 769

Re: Positive and negative goals in a WOG

I read somewhere that Rationals tend to visualize their life linearly. Creating a WOG (collection of vectors) is just doing an extremely good job of visualizing/projecting your life linearly. This forum would probably think it was cool if I made a Power BI report on my lifestyle over the last 59 yea...
by 7Wannabe5
Fri Apr 26, 2024 4:08 pm
Forum: ERE Book/Blog/Forum
Topic: Positive and negative goals in a WOG
Replies: 14
Views: 769

Re: Positive and negative goals in a WOG

At the meta level one would also have to consider the positive and negative aspects of performing a WOG analysis, and then the positive and negative aspects of the meta-level consideration, etc. etc. infinite regress. This is why at this juncture in my life, I would seriously consider trading 10 IQ ...
by 7Wannabe5
Fri Apr 26, 2024 12:24 pm
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: Urbanhomesteader's Journal
Replies: 52
Views: 7685

Re: Urbanhomesteader's Journal

I have a 4 hour block 3 mornings a week called "Spa Day". This time block includes walking the dog, going for a run at the track, strength training, yoga, showering and sun bathing. What a good idea. The concept is flexible enough to include a great many activities. For example, you could...
by 7Wannabe5
Fri Apr 26, 2024 12:00 pm
Forum: Money and Investment Questions
Topic: M, 26, best practices: land inheritance, should I sell, hold, do a new build or buy an existing house?
Replies: 31
Views: 3255

Re: M, 26, best practices: land inheritance, should I sell, hold, do a new build or buy an existing house?

Much of one's approach to this comes down to whether a home is considered an asset, a liability, an expense (rent, taxes, insurance,...), or an investment(*). Personally, I think of our home as an asset but not an investment. Many or most humans would also imbue the word "home" with emoti...
by 7Wannabe5
Fri Apr 26, 2024 11:19 am
Forum: Philosophy and Lifestyle Questions
Topic: surprised by change and upredictability
Replies: 55
Views: 3387

Re: surprised by change and upredictability

I was browsing a maker magazine the other day and happened upon a model for creativity/innovation described as Imitation-> Modification-> Innovation. It struck me that the term Modification might lend some insight to what is going on at the Coordinating level of the CCCCC Copying-> Comparing-> Compi...
by 7Wannabe5
Fri Apr 26, 2024 9:40 am
Forum: Money and Investment Questions
Topic: M, 26, best practices: land inheritance, should I sell, hold, do a new build or buy an existing house?
Replies: 31
Views: 3255

Re: M, 26, best practices: land inheritance, should I sell, hold, do a new build or buy an existing house?

it is not inconceivable that some of the hosts locked themselves in such a money/time sink situations and actually needed a helper more than vice-versa This is always a matter of perspective, skill, goals and cash flow. For example, I could theoretically make use of a full-time general-purpose pers...
by 7Wannabe5
Wed Apr 24, 2024 10:17 am
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: Western Red Cedar's Journal
Replies: 542
Views: 164712

Re: Western Red Cedar's Journal

In order to relax from being the logistician, you need to first learn how to express your preferences/feelings. Rule of thumb is that it is easier to experience pleasure if you are not the logistician/decision-maker in the moment. That's why decision-makers have a higher pay grade. I recently had an...