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2014 Review

Last January 1st I wrote:
GandK wrote:I'm certain that 2014 will be better financially. We haven't been able to sell our house yet, but we're still trying, and once we downsize into a condo our monthly bills will decrease by about 10%. Also, we expect a nice windfall sometime in the June-July timeframe (a lucrative case that G has been working on for quite some time will settle then). Even if we saved no other money at all this year, that windfall would make our 2014 savings percentage higher than 2013's.
My predictions for 2014 were all accurate. We did sell the house and get a condo, and our monthly bills went down (by much more than 10%). And we got the expected windfall. Apart from banking that, our savings rate has otherwise stayed the same this year as it was in 2013, at around 15%.

The big accomplishment for 2014: this was the first year our net worth went up by 6 figures. I'm pleased to say that only 40% of that number was deposits; the rest was growth. Another note: apart from a tiny forced pension contribution of G's, this is the first year we have not contributed any money to qualified/retirement plans. That snowball is now rolling all on its own, and our focus has shifted to building the taxable sum that we need to get G retired too.

2015 Predictions

This year's savings and growth will be less. We have medical bills coming for one of the kids (surgery after a broken leg), and our health insurance plan is less than generous. We expect the final bill to be $10k-$12k. G will have 2 daughters in college at the same time this fall. I believe the younger will get a free ride academically, but there will still be associated expenses. We are paying $6k this year for the elder; I anticipate paying roughly half that for the younger***. And we have a big tax bill coming from last year's unusually large income.

With no major windfalls on the 2015 horizon and some large bills coming due, I estimate this year's savings and growth will be about $75k, much less than 2014's. Our overall net worth should rise by $100k. We've tweaked our budget lately to increase our savings rate to 20%, but the bills will rein in our progress. It will suck to go backwards from 2014, but it's very cool to be far enough along our journey that I'm fairly certain our net worth for the year will rise by more than I made while working. :D

Talk about getting a place in Florida has died down. I don't think we will discuss it again until our next visit to Florida.

On the writing front, after a year of waffling, I've decided to pursue traditional publication instead of self-publication. Therefore, my 2015 writing goal is to finish editing book one of my series and find an agent for it.

Finally, from the "first world problems" arena, G accidentally broke my phone a few days ago. And phones are the one thing in my life that I'm a princess about. I insist on owning a high-end, high-quality, recent model non-iPhone. (A holdover from my software development days when I actually needed such a thing.) So replacing it won't be cheap at all. I'm thinking Xperia. Luckily, my birthday is this week.

*** Our agreement with all of our children except the youngest is that if they will commit to a path that will allow them to graduate debt free, we will pay one third of their college expenses. Their other parent is also responsible for one third, and the child must pay for the remaining third through scholarships and/or work. The other caveat: we're not going to take loans out either... we have way too many kids to cover everyone's full price college tuition at trendy private schools. Our third of the costs has to be doable within our budget. If they want to take a different path and they take out student loans instead, they get nothing but books and fees from us. (After paying off student loans into his late thirties, G is very passionate about this issue!) Anyway, the 2 that have hit college so far have happily agreed to the no debt plan, and have received enough in scholarships to cover their third and then some, making college costs extremely reasonable, and we've just split the remaining bills with their mother. #3 starts college in the fall. Of the eight, she's been our best student so far, and we anticipate more of the same low-cost goodness in her financial aid packages. And in case you're wondering, the youngest child is an exception because he's the only one who's both of ours. We plan to pick up two thirds in his case, leaving him with one third of the burden like his siblings.

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I have to try and remember your college finance arrangement for when I'll need it. Sounds very reasonable.

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February Update

No real financial achievements going on at present. We're saving every dollar we can in the hopes of paying a huge tax bill without cashing anything out. Beans and rice... rice and beans.

Two weeks ago, a couple from our church was referred to us for Budgeting 101. G and I spent 5 hours with them teaching them the ins and outs of financial planning for those with an irregular income. They're doing quite nicely, and believe they will end the month in the black for the first time in a long time. w00t for planning and execution!

Critique Group and Technical Difficulties

Last month, I joined an online critique group for fantasy writers. That's been an adventure! It's a talented and motivated group. Just what I need to keep myself motivated. I'm really glad I joined. Twenty writers, give or take... one of whom is my crit partner of many years. 8-)

We had some real problems getting our environment set up, though.

We met and started out on Yahoo Groups. Nobody really liked YG as an environment. The interface is antiquated and file permissions were a problem.

We soon took a poll and realized that most of us were keeping our files in Google Docs. So then there was an attempt to migrate everyone into Google and do everything there. Bad idea. Google Docs is awesome, and it's great to do comments and revisions inside people's stories, but there's no common environment for web-based conversations to take place in GD. And some people didn't want to use Hangouts for chat, because it's texting, and texting makes people feel exposed or some such. Now... there used to be a Google Groups. That would have been ideal for us if it had been kept up, but it was retired by Google a few years back. Anyway, the non-Google people became frustrated with being forced to use Google. A few dropped out of the group entirely over it.

I finally put my developer hat back on, did some research, and set up a new organization for us on Trello. That worked. Now we seem to be getting settled in. Trello isn't perfect as a platform, but it does about 90% of what we want. We have workflow and online conversations, we can link to documents instead of uploading, and people can use Google Docs or Dropbox or whatever. There are even Android and iPhone apps that alert you when someone posts a critique or comments on your stuff. The interface is a little unusual. You have to scroll horizontally to see a lot of what's on Trello, and that's not how people are used to looking for information. But that's my only major gripe. There's also no chat component to it, but everyone who wants to chat is using Google Hangouts. 10 of us had a video chat last Sunday afternoon. We didn't do much besides introduce ourselves and officially decide to dump Yahoo, but I hope in future we can "meet" about bigger issues, like publication and plotting and whether it's viable to write novels entirely in Haiku.

My hope is that now that we've stopped jumping from platform to platform, we can concentrate on building better stories. Or rather, that was my hope until someone started putting up Pinterest links in the Inspiration room. Now we're all off track again, myself included.

Shiny things for the win!

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March 1 Update

Well... February sucked. Many of our investments tanked, and the month ended by G going to Vegas with a buddy and having way more fun than he intended. Like $1,300 worth of unplanned, not-in-his-agreed-upon-trip-budget fun. So between the two, we're back at January 1 again financially, and the markets haven't even had a good nose dive yet. If we didn't have a trip to Florida coming up soon, I know I'd do something crazy over all this. I hate going backwards when the stock market isn't having a sale!

Writing Workshop

On a positive note, I'm participating in a writing workshop this month, which I'm loving:

At-Home Workshop: Revise Your Novel in 31 Days

So, in a nutshell: my portfolio is looking anemic, but my novel is getting healthier by the day!

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Ahh, Vegas. It can be so difficult to not bleed money when hanging out with buddies. I remember when I went there back in 2007 with some friends...every drink was at least $10, so it was easy to end up with a $100-$150 bill at the end of the night and not even be all that drunk.

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Well, that month was like this song:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WQlImg2bm28

Hopefully, next month will be like this one:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BteIwbKU_iQ

Two sides to every coin. ;)

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Camping in Wisconsin

Just got back from a week at Point Beach State Forest. We tent camp frequently, and normally I wouldn't post details because tent camping in a forest is just... tent camping in a forest, but this time we had such a great-yet-inexpensive experience that I wanted to pass it on.

Details:

1. We had to buy an annual Wisconsin state park sticker for $35 to get into the forest, which gave us admission to all Wisconsin parks for the remainder of 2015. But after that, it was $15 a night for tent sites at this campground. Very reasonable.

2. It's gorgeous. G prefers beaches and I prefer forests for vacations, and our camp site had this:

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and this:

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just a few hundred yards/meters apart. Both extremely clean. Best of both worlds, we decided. We loved it. I could lay in our tent in the forest at night and hear the waves breaking on the shore.

3. Wisconsin in June has gorgeous weather. Highs in low-mid 70s. We couldn't have asked for better temperatures to camp/hike.

4. That whole area is an introvert's paradise. Very few people. At the camping area, there are ~125 sites total, most with woods between them. And for the majority of our stay, most of those were empty. More people arrived on the weekend, but we had very few other people to contend with during the week. No lines at the bathhouses or anything. And beyond the campsite, it's miles of forest. We felt like it was just us and (very well kept) nature.

5. The forest campground is in a remote area, but there's a small town nearby (Twin Rivers) that has reasonably priced supplies. Unlike most places we've stayed in either tourist areas or the very rural UP which charge an arm and a leg for everything. Going to town for laundry or coffee wasn't burdensome in any way.

All in all, we felt like this was the best "bang for our buck" camping vacation we've ever had. You would definitely need mosquito repellant, but that's literally the only possible negative we identified for this campground.

And by the way, since I know a lot of you bike... the whole state of Wisconsin - at least the eastern portion - seems to have bike trails everywhere. Even in extremely rural areas. Coming from Ohio, we were shocked. We'd been to WI cities before, like Milwaukee, but never out in the sticks. But even in towns you drive through where the welcome sign says things like "Population 1,008" you'd still see wide, well-maintained bike trails. Although we got a kick out of how we never once saw bikers on them. They just used the roads. But yeah, we looked at each other more than once and said, "If we ever want to take a dedicated biking trip, this is the place to be." Especially for amateurs like us who'd probably need the trails to ourselves to avoid causing accidents, LOL.

Anyway. Highly recommended spot, if you camp.

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Your pics have inspired me to try tent camping again. We've only used our camper, so it limits where we can camp.

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jennypenny wrote:Your pics have inspired me to try tent camping again. We've only used our camper, so it limits where we can camp.
Awesome!

We look at campers periodically, but we've never pounced. We like the tent, and the lack of towing, and that everything we need for a week for 4 people can fit in our sedan.

We did upgrade, though. After a couple of "Oh, my back!" mornings we bought some inexpensive cots for the adults. :)

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Camping adventure #2

This week we're in the Finger Lakes region of New York. We decided to camp at the Blueberry Patch campground in the FL National Forest, slap in the middle of wine country. Tent sites at BP are $10/night but it doesn't have shower facilities, so we knew we'd need day passes to other local campgrounds to bathe (more $). They don't take reservations, it's totally FCFS, so we weren't sure whether we'd get in. 9 spots in the whole site. But counting us, only two are in use. My kind of place. :-D

Anyway, we get here, and there's a sign up at BP: "These sites are free until further notice." Some administrative problem, it looks like. 14 day limit on the stay, but that more than covers our camping trip. And it's free! Score!

Once settled, we head down the road a bit to Sampson State Park to bathe and let the little guy hit the huge playgrounds there. $7.50 for a day pass... but it turns out you only need one before 5:00 pm. From 5:00 pm until dark, park entry/use is... free! So free showers at a great place with awesome playgrounds, trails, marina, views of the lake, etc. as well.

Here's to a free camping experience, albeit accidental. <clink> 8-)

Wine festivals are in full swing here now. All kinds of free "come here and drink our wine tonight while we play music... maybe it will make you buy things" productions going on. Looks great, but we have Pete and Repeat with us, so no dice. Makes me wish we'd left them with the grandparents.

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Love your camping updates. (Especially since we're in the same hunting grounds.)

I've been contemplating getting a[n expensive] canvas wall tent to solve many of these issues. E.g. bring a basin for showering. Thinking more "18th century pioneering" and less "20th century backpacking" for my solutions.

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Did you get hit with bad storms?

Do you tear down the campsite when you expect bad weather, or just ride it out and hope for the best?

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jacob wrote:Love your camping updates. (Especially since we're in the same hunting grounds.)
Well for heaven's sake... come by and visit! :D

@jennypenny Yep! It stormed. It's been raining for most of our stay. And to answer your question: when it rains, the tent stays put but we usually don't. Apart from any errands - which we may put off until it rains if we know its going to - normally we have a list of inexpensive things in the area that we'd like to do/see if we have time. And if it's raining during the day, we pack up our food and drive around and do/see those rather than staying at the campsite.

This has many advantages. Tourist areas have fewer people in the rain. The locals drive slower, which is better for sightseeing from the car. And most importantly, it keeps us from sitting in the tent for what could be days on end, reluctantly playing Uno for the 200th time and hearing "Ugh! This is the worst vacation EVER! Leave me at home next time." And the kids are even worse than I am. :oops:

We always sleep in the tent. Every once in a while it leaks a bit by the door, even with the rain cover on. Never a big deal. Dirty clothes or a towel can absorb any water that comes in, and we just hit the laundromat for an hour (free WiFi!) the next day if we need to.

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A few days of peace and quiet!

Today I put G and our 4yo son on a plane to Florida for a week to visit all the grandparents. From now until next Wednesday night, it will just be me and my 15yo son. And while the extraverts are away, the introverts are going to play! My older son's suggestion: "Mom, let's go hang at Starbucks all day Saturday. We can bring our laptops and our headphones and sip lattes." Maybe not all day, but... that's my boy. :D

Hell is a new mall...

... with a Cheesecake Factory.

Right up the road. In walking distance of my home. Positioned in such a way that I have to drive by it in order to get pretty much anywhere I go. Taunting me.

I don't care about most sweets. I have no problem ignoring chocolate, donuts, and almost any other sugary concoction. Except cheesecake. I'm irrationally convinced that cheesecake exists for the sole purpose of tormenting me. More than a year after our move here, I still love my condo, but I would never have agreed to live here in the first place if I knew that 90% of the time I go anywhere I'd have to drive by a Cheesecake Factory.

Some of you are laughing now... I'm sure this sounds silly, but this is a big deal to me. It's my favorite food thing, and I know it's horribly unhealthy, so I diligently try to pretend that it doesn't exist. Usually that works, but this new establishment is something I'm unprepared for. Either I drive several minutes out of my way every time I drive East now (and have associated gas/mileage costs), which is the direction I'm usually going, or I have to drive past the Mecca of dietetic debauchery. And either way I'm thinking about the place.

This is on top of the fact that there will be a mall, and all associated traffic, right up the road. Grrr! :x Our property value will certainly go up, if it hasn't already, but that's insufficient consolation for being nudged into thinking about my favorite fattening food every day. And right after I got myself back into good shape, too.

Not asking for advice, really, Just ranting.

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GandK wrote:And while the extraverts are away, the introverts are going to play!


That just made me laugh out loud. Enjoy it! Thinking ahead, it would be nice to have kids who get me :lol:

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Cheesecake Factory's Godiva Chocolate Cheesecake is my weakness. It's gluten free. And 920 cal/slice. :o When I treat myself to a slice, I get it to go and divide it into 7 pieces so I can have one each day. Then it's only 132 cal/serving and I get to have it 7 times instead of once. :lol:

DD is the only extrovert. Whenever she heads back to college, the rest of us collapse from exhaustion. It's so different when she's not here. She's gone now, and I don't think anyone in my house has uttered a word in the last three hours. No TV, radio, video games, or conversation of any kind. It's heaven.

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Finally back on track financially? (fingers crossed)

We started out horribly this year. After some rotten investment choices in February, G was chasing losses for most of the year. :oops: However, we have managed to out-earn and out-save our earlier stupidity, and with the help of those losses rebounding a bit, we are now out of the bad investments and are now on track to reach our annual savings goals. Woohoo!

If any of you are ever tempted to chase losses, shoot me a PM and I'll talk you out of it.

All kinds of craziness in my morning news feed today

Government workers are happier with their benefits than other US workers are, Gallup says. No surprise there, as the benefits are roughly twice as good. I remember a debate we had here about people's willingness to sacrifice pay for perks. Is this proof of that willingness? Writ large, is this the "big government" mentality in the workplace? And what might this tendency mean for do-it-yourselfers like the people who tend to populate this site? Just thinking out loud here...

Forbes is reporting today that 30% Of Millennials Would Sell An Organ To Get Rid Of Student Loans. The deeply twisted part of me wants to put up a poll to see which organs people are most likely to hawk. The rest of me is appalled, with both the article and my twistedness.

US News has an utterly useless article about things to do 5 Years Before Retiring. The list includes such epiphanies as "Estimate your retirement expenses and check the number against your nest egg" and "Decide how you will turn your nest egg into an income stream." No wonder no one in the US is prepared for retirement, if they're receiving messages that the time to think about these things is 5 years out, eh?

There was one ray of sunshine in my news feed, though: an off-grid Victorian prepper tiny house... yummy... :D Although the Escape tiny houses are still my favorite.

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GandK wrote:Forbes is reporting today that 30% Of Millennials Would Sell An Organ To Get Rid Of Student Loans.
My sister's regular sale of her blood isn't enough to discharge her student loan debt... heck, I'm not sure it's enough to pay the interest on her debt.

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GandK wrote:US News has an utterly useless article about things to do 5 Years Before Retiring. The list includes such epiphanies as "Estimate your retirement expenses and check the number against your nest egg" and "Decide how you will turn your nest egg into an income stream." No wonder no one in the US is prepared for retirement, if they're receiving messages that the time to think about these things is 5 years out, eh?

I am pretty well convinced those articles are written by bots at this point (although this one looks a bit more....real?)...and if not....well then all hope truly is lost. How could anyone writing that not begin to question it?

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If not bots then good copy-writers who are able to hammer out 40 "different" farticles on the same subject on practically any topic based on 10 minutes of research before tomorrow's deadline. If you don't think but type fast, you too can be a "content"-creatoooorrrr.

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