A few things.
1) Self-control. Need I point out to you that you are not average?
You have a level of self-control unimaginable to the average Creosote. They see self-control as self-denial, as in the illness of self-denial. How many have replaced sexual-pleasure entirely with food-pleasure?
2) Bacon. It is the ultimate fetish food. Actually it has been marketed to become the ultimate fetish food. People have been manipulated into believing that they deserve bacon, not once in a while but every single day. A luxury becomes a necessity. How many other bacons do we have? How many produce a near sexual satisfaction simply because we've been told they do so? Think about the television commercials showing a beautiful woman experiencing near orgasmic pleasure while consuming something. This is a learned behavior. We have been manipulated into equating the two.
3) Gatherings. Feasts were once communal gatherings that happened several times a year. It was about family, friends, community..... Food was central but it was the togetherness that was the point. Today Creosotes sitting alone getting his sexual pleasure from his comfort foods is the norm.
4) Chocolate. Apparently Nigella has a cabinet full of it in her kitchen. Today we have a whole movement toward "primal". Here are a few guys who live much closer to the way our primal ancestors lived, and they happen to grow the cocoa beans. Interesting reactions.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEN4hcZutO0
TL:dr I think it is great to get together with family and have a nice meal. I just think that equating the food part of the gathering with sexual pleasure is not only physically and psychologically unhealthy, it open us up to incredible levels of manipulation.
I guess I'm thinking that the more experiences I can elevate to the level of good sex, the better.
Practice makes perfect. Rungasms aside, deriving sexual-level pleasure from non-sexual experiences makes us better at transferring it further. Sexual pleasure from driving a sports car. Sexual pleasure from shopping at Nordstrom's. Sexual pleasure from watching my favorite television program. From eating chocolate. You have a self-control that Nigellas and the Creasotes do not have.