How to Make Big Life Changes?

[7Wannabe5]

Changing location, changing job and changing relationship seem similar to me, but committing to relationship, or anything else, seems like the opposite. I have little fear of the first three, but am currently borderline phobic of commitment because I have suffered too much from allowing myself to stick for too long for the wrong reasons, such as "guilt" or "false pride" or "sunk cost fallacy." Might just have to do with my personality type, but I can't think of a single major instance where I regret making a change or "quitting", but several major instances where I have some degree of regret for not making a change or "quitting" sooner.

[Gilberto de Piento]

Might just have to do with my personality type, but I can't think of a single major instance where I regret making a change or "quitting", but several major instances where I have some degree of regret for not making a change or "quitting" sooner.

This sounds very familiar unfortunately.