Spartan_Warrior wrote:Oh, and as far as "No one is REALLY suffering (in America)", I'm sorry, and I admire and respect the work your wife is doing for the needy, @Ego, but I don't believe for one second that no one is going hungry--in America much less globally. A quick Google search reveals that apparently ~42 million Americans live in food insecure houses. That's 13% of the population. There are also other ways to suffer besides hunger. There are (American) households that choose between food and heat in the winter. There are (American) households that go without medical care due to the expense. Et cetera.
My "let them eat cake" reference was hyperbolic, but importantly, I was not comparing only the plight of our disadvantaged but also the attitude and level of understanding of the advantaged toward the former...
I guess it comes down to a discussion on the definition of suffering. There are some people in the world who are literally starving. Starvation is one type of physical suffering. The kind of suffering we are talking about here is a mental experience. Loss of status and status anxiety. Fear of change. Fear of the unknown. Decline in standard of living. These mental experiences are far more subjective than physical suffering.
Which type of suffering is worse, physical or mental? Does the subjectivity of mental suffering make it more malleable? More manageable?
We know, for example, that a doctor should not prescribes a pain killer to drug away physical pain if they know the patient will use it to continue doing the thing that caused the pain in the first place. It just makes things worse. Pain is a message to change.
Yet we continue to make it more and more socially acceptable to drug away the mental pain these folks experience using alcohol or anti-depressants or anti-anxiety meds or now marijuana or a combination of these. We equate mental suffering with physical suffering and deny the subjectivity of it. We treat the symptoms and pretend that we don't see the elephant in the room, the fact that pain is a message to change.
Mrs. Ego did a survey of seventy food-bank recipients earlier this week. Most were overweight or obese, but would be considered the people you deem as food insecure. One question they asked was, "How many sugary drinks do you consume in a week?" Most said zero. A few who were actually carrying bottles of coke admitted to drinking one or two. No one admitted to drinking more than two per week.
People love binary quotes like the one you used above for food insecurity - pay for heat or buy food. It isn't binary. It is much more complex. Don't buy ten cokes a week. Don't pay for cable tv or high speed internet. Don't sign up for an expensive cell phone contract. Don't smoke marijuana to deal with the anxiety of figuring out how you are going to feed your kids because the money you spent on marijuana is the solution to the problem causing your suffering.
The world is much more complex than the binary state of victimizer/victim. Pain is a message to change. Except in the most extreme cases, drug it (literally or metaphorically) at your own peril.