I'm terrible with subtlety so if you are trying to say something you should just say it.jacob wrote:
The "ego" is one such virus/meme that infects pretty much everyone. (Zen Buddhists try very hard to purge this particular virus.)
Nurf guns it is.
I'm terrible with subtlety so if you are trying to say something you should just say it.jacob wrote:
The "ego" is one such virus/meme that infects pretty much everyone. (Zen Buddhists try very hard to purge this particular virus.)
that the particles are no different is indisputable. brute believes the point of contention is the configuration of the particles.jacob wrote:Ha! No slight insult intended. It's only that the idea of the "self" is the most universally held human-theme I can think of. I've yet to meet or hear of a human who thinks they're just a bunch of particles no different from the chair they're sitting on.
Yes, this was my conclusion after meeting you in person. You and I are the only ones in this room.jacob wrote:@brute - Actually, none of you guys really exist. It's just me being ERE and writing everyone's posts carrying on a conversation with myself all day long
in all voluntary exchanges (and debatably in involuntary ones), both parties are making profits, and thereby exploiting the weakness of the other party. nobody would perform any type of trade if they didn't have a desire (=weakness) they felt the need to improve upon.7Wannabe5 wrote:I think it is kind of mean to poke fun at the person or people from whose weakness you are currently making profit. Obviously, pimps and money-lenders have more power than johns, gamblers,wage-slaves or prostitutes, but it's not nice to brag, and it's not very self-aware to think you are better.
Well, the main point I was trying to make with the anecdote was that my much more affluent date communicated that he recognized that I had or was making a choice. He wasn't placing me in the role of victim of sad circumstances ripe for the rescue. So, he was also communicating respect for my free agent adult status. I have examined the whether or not to allow a man to pick up the tab issue seven ways to Sunday, and my current take is that it is inconsiderate if I insist on only skills, services and barter in trade. Also, I only allow a man to buy me dinner if I find him otherwise attractive, or if he clearly would benefit from having a kind face to vent angst about his job and/or divorce at. The second I also consider to be a bit of a public service, because often not worth the price even if I order dessert. As for the specific instance I was referring to, I did find him otherwise attractive, and he was the one who purposefully turned off my switch and put me back in my package at the end of the evening, and he has already booked me for dinner this Thursday and Friday, so ...?ffj said: That anecdote only works if you actually did pick up the tab. Did you? Or did you keep the illusion of a being a poor Native American? If you didn't pay the bill, who do you think ultimately came out ahead on that exchange?
I had to look up stochastic models. I agree.JamesR wrote:@Ego,
If anything, there's nothing about neural wiring that is deterministic, it's going to be more stochastic, the gradual result of many different probabilities occurring over time.
I think it's a bad idea at any age.IlliniDave wrote:Learning to defer gratitude is one of the early steps of typical human development/maturity. It just happens later in some of us later than in others.
Haha! Yeah, I meant gratification. Gratitude is good all the time.enigmaT120 wrote:I think it's a bad idea at any age.IlliniDave wrote:Learning to defer gratitude is one of the early steps of typical human development/maturity. It just happens later in some of us later than in others.