How can I fit in more people without spending more money?
I'm an ENFP, and I am going CRAZY without enough in-person social time.
Pre-ERE goals, I used to go out to eat with friends almost EVERY NIGHT... Most of my close friends have moved away, so now I'm in limbo: need to socialize, don't want to spend money; need to make new friends, don't want to spend money.
Unfortunately NYC has very isolating architecture, IMO. It's not conducive to just 'hanging out' at people's houses.