DH has a job offer there. He currently works in DC but comes home weekends. This job would require enough of his time (including weekends) that we would have to move there. Virginia would be our first choice because of where the job is. Looking between Quantico and the Pentagon.
Is it even possible to live there on any kind of ERE budget? I know housing prices are pretty high, but are real estates taxes low? Do most neighborhoods have HOAs? (pennsylvania is blessedly HOA-free for the most part) This job would shorten the amount of time for him to save up enough money for ER (and still pay for kids' college), but I worry that moving will eat up any extra money he'll earn.