hello people of the FIRE --
I'm glad to have discovered this forum, and it has already reoriented my financial life through a little series of coincidences, which I'll explain in the next post. But first thing first: I'm a european FIRE-person, well on my way towards the FI goal. I have always been instinctively frugal, and to my surprise and delight, after graduating, people gave me jobs to continue doing what I love: reading books and having opinions. They even pay me good money for that, at various universities in Europe and in the US, and that mostly goes straight to my bank where it has just been sleeping. This would be an almost perfect ERE story, were it not for a somewhat chaotic private life, which led to divorce and child-custody nightmares, robbing me from years of peace of mind and financial sanity -- the price of bad relationship-decisions making me grow up the hard way, I guess. Now that I mostly stopped fighting that life-draining custody fight, I find myself in my early forties, with a good reserve of money and my old dreams of early retirement. Googling those dreams one day, I stumbled upon this community which make me feel right at home. Finding you guys also led me to be moving apartments next week, and I'm looking forward to the next steps :)