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by chenda
Wed Apr 17, 2024 12:52 pm
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: Just Gravy
Replies: 302
Views: 86683

Re: Just Gravy

@Biscuits - You might like 'All for Nothing' by Walter Kempowski, about a wealthy Prussian family in 1945 who seal themselves away as the red army inch ever closer to their remote estate. One of the best books I have ever read.
by chenda
Wed Apr 17, 2024 12:40 pm
Forum: Philosophy and Lifestyle Questions
Topic: surprised by change and upredictability
Replies: 14
Views: 457

Re: surprised by change and upredictability

''The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind. The kind that blindsides you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday'' ''You too will get old. And when you do your will fantasise that when you were young, prices were reasonable, politicians were noble and children res...
by chenda
Sat Apr 13, 2024 11:34 am
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: I Was Once Found But Now I Am Lost
Replies: 104
Views: 30215

Re: I Was Once Found But Now I Am Lost

I think there is a transition from starting pitcher to relief pitcher. To use evolutionary terms, it would be what Stephen Jay Gould called punctuated equilibrium. Things evolve slowly, things appearing like they are in stasis and then, blammo, a marked change. You spend most of your life starting ...
by chenda
Sat Apr 13, 2024 11:17 am
Forum: Transportation Questions
Topic: What is a good learner car? (as in learning to fix and maintain yourself)
Replies: 35
Views: 1604

Re: What is a good learner car? (as in learning to fix and maintain yourself)

An air-cooled Beetle. Edit: To expand on this, VW spare parts are ubiquitous worldwide, the Beetle is probably the most iconic car ever made (despite literally been designed by Hitler) and likely has a large network of enthusiasts and owners forums. You can probably find you tube videos which explai...
by chenda
Sat Apr 13, 2024 11:07 am
Forum: Housing and Transportation Questions
Topic: ERE City (US)
Replies: 509
Views: 162222

Re: ERE City (US)

I am anti-Lancaster. I grew up in the neighboring county. The irony of all of my favorite people collectively moving to my least favorite place. I endorse your anti-Lancaster sentiments. I knew a girl from Lancaster, lovely girl who was married to a local boy from a young age. Unfortunately he was ...
by chenda
Mon Apr 08, 2024 1:29 pm
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: I Was Once Found But Now I Am Lost
Replies: 104
Views: 30215

Re: I Was Once Found But Now I Am Lost

Apparently solar eclipses drive wildlife mad.
by chenda
Mon Apr 08, 2024 12:14 pm
Forum: Resources & Recommended Reading
Topic: Favorite Classic Books
Replies: 45
Views: 4177

Re: Favorite Classic Books

I finished binge watching Ripley last night and I have to say I was very impressed with it. It faithfully follows the book it all the important ways, with a lot of clever details for Highsmith fans and convincingly recreates post-war Italy. Shooting it all in black and white was a bit of a gamble bu...
by chenda
Sat Apr 06, 2024 3:05 pm
Forum: Resources & Recommended Reading
Topic: Favorite Classic Books
Replies: 45
Views: 4177

Re: Favorite Classic Books

The talented Mr Ripley. My favourite book of all time. The film is good but the book is *much* better. Netflix have made a series based on the book called Ripley. Shot in black and white and looks promising so far. Just hope they don't soften it up like Anthony Minghella did in 1999. I want pre-med...
by chenda
Thu Apr 04, 2024 1:25 pm
Forum: Philosophy and Lifestyle Questions
Topic: ERE or Semi-ERE past Age 65
Replies: 131
Views: 6925

Re: ERE or Semi-ERE past Age 65

My main task for 8 mos of the year now that I'm retired is looking after my dad. He's 84, for far into the time period you're talking about. Has he given you power of attorney ? If not I recommend he does asap, it makes things much easier for next of kin. Trying to get it after a person is incapaci...
by chenda
Mon Apr 01, 2024 2:32 pm
Forum: Philosophy and Lifestyle Questions
Topic: ERE or Semi-ERE past Age 65
Replies: 131
Views: 6925

Re: ERE or Semi-ERE past Age 65

@Dutchgirl - yes indeed, and also most people don't end up needing residential care, and whilst its common enough we should plan for the possibility its by no means inevitable.
by chenda
Mon Apr 01, 2024 2:27 pm
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: Chenda's sober ramblings.
Replies: 89
Views: 7656

Re: Chenda's sober ramblings.

So its been three months dry and coincidentally its been the worse period of my life, but I think it would have been a lot worse if I had been drinking. It was almost as if the random decision to quit was me being prepared for it. I'm no longer regularly drinking the 0% beer as the desire to have a ...
by chenda
Sun Mar 31, 2024 10:53 am
Forum: Philosophy and Lifestyle Questions
Topic: ERE or Semi-ERE past Age 65
Replies: 131
Views: 6925

Re: ERE or Semi-ERE past Age 65

One thing to consider is that most people are not in a care home for very long, for obvious reasons. Digging into capital seems a very reasonable way of funding end of life care if necessary. If your pension covers say half the costs and you can supplement with cash savings for the other half for 5-...
by chenda
Fri Mar 29, 2024 9:25 am
Forum: Health and Food Questions
Topic: What doesn't kill you might make you dumber?
Replies: 54
Views: 2592

Re: What doesn't kill you might make you dumber?

7Wannabe5 wrote:
Fri Mar 29, 2024 9:10 am
one of the more dangerous anti-Vietnam War groups
What did they do ?
by chenda
Wed Mar 27, 2024 5:16 pm
Forum: Housing and Transportation Questions
Topic: ERE City (US)
Replies: 509
Views: 162222

Re: ERE City (US)

Belfast in Maine was a very nice little town I once spent some time in. Very walkable and had all amenities you would ever need. Camden was quite nice as well iirc.
by chenda
Wed Mar 27, 2024 4:50 pm
Forum: Money and Investment Questions
Topic: M, 26, best practices: land inheritance, should I sell, hold, do a new build or buy an existing house?
Replies: 14
Views: 1264

Re: Navigating Housing Options and making "big decisions"

Is seems like you know about Italy. What do you mean? Also, what is a safe bet salary to start thinking about a house, for Italy? I don't know much about Italy but there is a vlogger I follow who bought a farmhouse in the mountains for < 50 000k iirc, somewhere in the north east I think. https://yo...
by chenda
Wed Mar 27, 2024 2:40 pm
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: Just Gravy
Replies: 302
Views: 86683

Re: Just Gravy

Sorry to hear that biscuits, I hope it goes well for you all.
by chenda
Wed Mar 27, 2024 2:31 pm
Forum: Money and Investment Questions
Topic: M, 26, best practices: land inheritance, should I sell, hold, do a new build or buy an existing house?
Replies: 14
Views: 1264

Re: Navigating Housing Options and making "big decisions"

Haven't you asked this question previously ? viewtopic.php?p=273935#p273935

Either way I don't think your income is high enough or you deposit is high enough for any of these options. But there is much cheaper property available in Italy.
by chenda
Mon Mar 25, 2024 3:17 pm
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: Ego's Journal
Replies: 376
Views: 57622

Re: Ego's Journal

Thank you @Ego. This documentary on Easter Island looks very good. I've not watched it yet but others he has made are excellent.

https://youtu.be/7j08gxUcBgc?si=Dv__O8kFE-evpwO4

Polynesia has fascinated me since I was a child.
by chenda
Sun Mar 24, 2024 3:57 am
Forum: ERE Journals
Topic: Ego's Journal
Replies: 376
Views: 57622

Re: Ego's Journal

Ego wrote:
Sat Mar 23, 2024 7:57 pm
Somewhat related. Years ago we spent some time on Rapa Nui,
I would be very interested in hearing more about this trip Ego, and anywhere else in Polynesia you may have been.
by chenda
Fri Mar 22, 2024 3:49 pm
Forum: ERE Community
Topic: Thank you
Replies: 1
Views: 186

Re: Thank you

And thank you for promoting cycling over cars, this is great work :)